Haast
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Stay or go?
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Does it matter? He said they don't fuck and he doesn't miss it. She could be a whale or a supermodel and the story is the same.
And bro... did you read this post after you wrote it? Does the question need answering? Re-read it to yourself aloud and go... question: answered
Noodleface
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iannis
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Woefully Inept
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Shonuff
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You already answered your question. Tell her you want to find a way to reconnect (if you do), or that you don't want to be with her any more.
Life is short, be with someone who makes you happy.
Mures
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I mean, hd porn is great and all, but I pity you if you haven't had sex in 6 months and miss nothing. You obviously are not very attracted to this person. Do yourself a favor and start getting into shape, today. You're 39 and "overweight", the road you're heading down you're going to be 49 and obese and you're not going to want to lose the weight then.
I would work on you and see if you can work out your problems. If not, you will at least be in a better place when and if you decide to pursue another relationship.
I would work on you and see if you can work out your problems. If not, you will at least be in a better place when and if you decide to pursue another relationship.
Zhavric
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A quick note on the anger management:
I work collections. I'm good at it. I make a decent living out of it. I have developed a skill set that allows me to deal with irate frustrated people without becoming overly irate and frustrated myself. No. I am not the world's greatest bill collector or any shit like that. I do all right for 8 hours a day.
When I talk to her, she can get worked up about shit that no sane human being has any reason to get worked up about. And I catch myself using my work skill set to keep myself calm and get her to calm down. She goes through phases. Some months, she's completely chill and pleasant. Other months, every other word out of anyone's mouth puts her into bitch-mode. With me constantly having to stay chill.
Once in a blue moon... like... MAYBE every six months if that... I will let my emotional response match or exceed hers. When it happens, she always freaks out, goes off crying, claims she'll just leave, etc. It's fucking infuriating. She can say anything and I just sort of have to take it. If I talk to her the way she talks to me, she goes to pieces.
I work collections. I'm good at it. I make a decent living out of it. I have developed a skill set that allows me to deal with irate frustrated people without becoming overly irate and frustrated myself. No. I am not the world's greatest bill collector or any shit like that. I do all right for 8 hours a day.
When I talk to her, she can get worked up about shit that no sane human being has any reason to get worked up about. And I catch myself using my work skill set to keep myself calm and get her to calm down. She goes through phases. Some months, she's completely chill and pleasant. Other months, every other word out of anyone's mouth puts her into bitch-mode. With me constantly having to stay chill.
Once in a blue moon... like... MAYBE every six months if that... I will let my emotional response match or exceed hers. When it happens, she always freaks out, goes off crying, claims she'll just leave, etc. It's fucking infuriating. She can say anything and I just sort of have to take it. If I talk to her the way she talks to me, she goes to pieces.
Zhavric
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As for pics? Sorry. There's enough in here that if she read it, she'd know it was about her. And I know some of you out there can out-interweb me / find a way to track her down from her pic / etc. I appreciate the advice and time taken to read and reply. But yeah. No pics.
AladainAF
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Was on the fence until this. Out. Stay activity partners, if you want (little awkward) but move on. And start working out.
Palum
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