The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

Iannis_sl said:

Not only what Cad said, but if you're finding this out 6 months, 12 months in... there was nothing significant about her otherness to begin with. You were just daydreaming and masturbating.

The worst "SURPRISE!!! CONFESSION TIME!!!" I've ever run across is one girl told me, eventually when she was drunk, "I dated a black guy once. And.. you know."

So? I'm a American Inventorlover too. White power, sister.

I mean if you couldn't tell, that's not on her. Even if she tried to hide it.

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Moonarchia_sl said:

Take showers. Employ common courtesy. Show as much interest in the other person as in yourself. Be able to have a conversation about more than your hobbies. Have a sense of humor. Try to figure out their sense of humor. The rest is pretty much whether you find each other attractive, which is a pretty wide range of things.

Note that my list is all things (minus showers I guess) you do when making friends as well. If you don't get laid you may make a friend, who will help passively and maybe actively in finding someone who wants to be with you.

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Haast_sl said:

Dumar and Antarius back faggoting up the thread with their insecure fuckery. Never change, bros. And by never change, I mean go drive your scooters into oncoming traffic.

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kegkilla_sl said:

so apparently everyone here with the exception of Dumar wouldn't be at all affected if they learned their significant other had been stuffed airtight on a daily basis by guys she met on craigslist before she met you, her Prince Charming. you're all either:

1) full of shit
2) cuckold loving faggots
3) so unappealing women that your only option is to take whatever scraps you're given

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Phazael_sl said:

everyone gets to fuck around in their youth. When you grow up, you are going to realize that really fast.

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Antarius_sl said:

I don't use the cock carousel to describe a woman having 2-3 boyfriends in highschool.

I'm talking about 30 year old women that have fucked 40+ men and are incapable of forming emotional bonding with another human, but decide they want to "settle down with a nice man" because they think it will improve their life and give them something they feel they are "missing".

The 4 years of college... which tends to add at least 15 or more to any attractive woman's partner count, is shitty for them, but good for me who doesn't mind fucking emotionally damaged women.

And yes, men and women are very different in that aspect. My current LTR is a widow, and she claims to have only had sex with 2 men, at the age of 25. (my own number is around 50 times that) I've considered it's possible she is telling the truth. (immigrant and not knowing many guys since moving to the u.s.), but I still treat her shit tests the same way as I would any woman's shit tests, and it's been working out great for me. She loves being dominated in the bedroom, and being led outside the bedroom. Was at her house 2 weeks ago and she left to go to work and let me sleep in. She left her laptop open, sure enough she was still emailing/flirting with a man who lived out in California (about 40 messages spread out over a week). Has she fucked him? from the exchange it was obviously she hadn't... but EVERY woman is always looking to branch swing, and collect orbiters. Did it bother me? No, but I thought it was funny that she was trying to get me to stop talking to/dating other women WHILE having that back and forth email exchange, she wanted to secure my exclusivity while not being exclusive herself.

AWALT, even the ones with low partner counts.

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Haast_sl said:

Dumar and Antarius back faggoting up the thread with their insecure fuckery. Never change, bros. And by never change, I mean go drive your scooters into oncoming traffic.

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Antarius_sl said:

The 4 years of college... which tends to add at least 15 or more to any attractive woman's partner count, is shitty for them, but good for me who doesn't mind fucking emotionally damaged women.

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Antarius_sl said:

My current LTR is a widow

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Antarius_sl said:

but EVERY woman is always looking to branch swing, and collect orbiters. Did it bother me?

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Antarius_sl said:

No, but I thought it was funny that she was trying to get me to stop talking to/dating other women WHILE having that back and forth email exchange, she wanted to secure my exclusivity while not being exclusive herself.

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khalid_sl said:

This inherent idea that women who have had a bunch of partners previous are damaged but you are perfectly fine is dumb. The amusing thing to me about all this is, you quite clearly have been emotionally damaged from all this.




Stop abbreviating everything and take a second to understand the audience you are addressing. Please spend a few seconds to realize that we aren't your red pill reddit.



You fucking cruise Tinder to pick up women. Of course every woman you talk to is going to be looking to branch swing, that is what fucking Tinder is for. That doesn't mean ALL WOMEN are out to do that. For fucks sake, women are different, just like men. Not all women are whores and your mother isn't special.




So you are still fucking around and dating. Yet you think this is balanced by the fact that she is emailing someone out of state that she has never fucked? It seems quite likely that if she was sure you would be exclusive, she might stop flirting with this other guy. Since you clearly haven't said you want exclusivity, why is this abnormal at all? Either way, the situations aren't even remotely comparable and seems like yet another reason for you to confirm your bias that all women are whores.

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khalid_sl said:

All women are whores and your mother isn't special.

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