The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread
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Eidal
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Like Khalid said: anyone else find it ironic that Antarius' self-assessment is that his 100+ sexual partners hasn't impacted him negatively?
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Izo
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Eidal
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Dumar, my perception, along with many others on this board, is that Antarius' trip around the pussy-carousel 100+ times has absolutely altered him negatively. Fucking trannies off Craigslist in Walmart parking lots is not a distinguishing trait of a happy, well-adjusted man.
But yea, I get it... its a subjective thing: if the Antman thinks hes a better man after fucking 100 women then maybe he ought to continue. It's not as if I know the guy well enough to appraise him or what he does accurately. For what its worth, I also think most women with 100+ sexual partners would also be negatively impacted.
But yea, I get it... its a subjective thing: if the Antman thinks hes a better man after fucking 100 women then maybe he ought to continue. It's not as if I know the guy well enough to appraise him or what he does accurately. For what its worth, I also think most women with 100+ sexual partners would also be negatively impacted.
I was more speaking to the cultural narrative, not Ant. The narrative is such that it doesn't matter how many partners a woman has -- 1 partner is the same as 5, is the same as 10, is the same as 100. A woman actually finds a guymore attractivethe more partners he's had, and it's the opposite for men.
Eidal
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I don't know anyone that would agree with that.
I would wonder what prompted a woman to be such an outlier. But I'd think the same about a man. I'm assuming 100+ partners at age 30 is a substantial outlier for both genders.
It was a hypothetical, but I've met men and women with over 50 easily.
Lots of things prompt (and encourage) them: there's no stigma to whoring it up anymore, and being very loose sexually is celebrated in media and entertainment. My stance has always been that's perfectly fine -- feminism gave women that choice, and it's theirs to choose. However, like all things, there are consequences to that choice. The consequences are that you become used goods; you become less attractive as relationship material.
All women do this to some extent (some more than others, based on their capacity to fulfill their sexual imperatives). What usually occurs is a woman does this mostly in her 20s, but then early 30s, she 'changes' or 'matures' or is 'looking for something real' -- but that's precisely when she begins her decline in attractiveness; she gave her physical best to someone else, lots of someone elses. Why should she expect any guy to commit to her?
Izo
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But they're more akin than, say, a horse and a woman. Unless it's Sarah Jessica Parker. How different is different in your book anyway? What and why does it legitimize your statement 'Because men and women aren't the same.'? What's the implication?
The problem here is honestly the English language - it's very stupid in this respect.
When I make that statement, the implication isnotthat they're not equal, but that's what people take it as. People take the words 'not the same' as synonymous with unequal. They mean different things. Just because something isn't the same as something else, doesn't mean they're somehow 'not equal'.
Men and women are equal, but they're not the same.
When I make that statement, the implication isnotthat they're not equal, but that's what people take it as. People take the words 'not the same' as synonymous with unequal. They mean different things. Just because something isn't the same as something else, doesn't mean they're somehow 'not equal'.
Men and women are equal, but they're not the same.
iannis
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I don't think that's true. Or at least not as true as it was. It's just you're not trying to fuck dudes so for the most part you're like, "Hah! Get it, dawg!"
Men get a reputation too for whoring it up. It is less severe than the one that women get, but it's there.
Men get a reputation too for whoring it up. It is less severe than the one that women get, but it's there.
I'm not judging -- I said specifically that it's their choice, and that's perfectly fine. There's a difference when men do it, however. Women actually are attracted by the fact that other women want a guy sexually, and a woman would always choose a guy with multiple partners over a guy with few or none.
Jozu
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Women want what they cant have. This is the number one reason for male broken hearts. I just went thru a breakup after being together for 10 years, a lot of it was my own fault, but at the end of the day a girl is going to do what a girl wants to do, regardless of logic/reasoning.
If you treat a woman with respect...you might get some back, but chances are she will just respect you less. Ignore and treat like shit and chances are your going to get desired result. Its fucked up but true in every way.
If you treat a woman with respect...you might get some back, but chances are she will just respect you less. Ignore and treat like shit and chances are your going to get desired result. Its fucked up but true in every way.
Treat them the way their hindbrain wishes to be treated, and they will rationalize everything else. yes. It's why dark triad works so well. You should never - ever - appeal to logic/reasoning or the equity you've built in your relationship to stay together.
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Strange, but almost every couple I know who has been married 20, 30, 40+ years all treat each other with respect and love and the women aren't running off scared for TEH ALPHA FUCKS!
You aspies live in a different universe.
You aspies live in a different universe.