I just pray he's not one of those dudes that cums on shoes
Nah, not even remotely. IIRC, fetishists are turned on by inanimate objects and need them to reach sexual satisfaction. I don't see a pair of shoes and want to fuck em. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but not at all my thing.
I'm an aficionado of pretty clothes for women, but only if there's a woman involved. My girlfriend looks really good in all clothes, and she really shines when she wears gorgeous clothes. This,
THISis my thing.
Some heels are lots my thing, thou. I love the classic style pumps; round-toe Mary Janes, d'Orsays. Only on 1 inch or less platforms, and only with a 4 inch heel. Black patent, usually. I grab her Oxfords here and there; the low heel stuff that she likes. Natural colors is what she prefers like this (pic at bottom). I got her some nice blue suede ones. All opposite of kink, but sharp sharp looking footwear.
I don't dare buy her any other style of shoe or really any kind of lingerie. At all. Abject failure if I do. Mmm. I don't have a toe fetish, but she's got smashingly sexy toes, especially in piano black polish. Her fingers are just as sexy.
Sweaters, too are easy buys; she's got lovely shoulders and strong, slender arms. Cotton/wool/lycra blends for mini skirts and matching tights, Lose comfy cable knits and sweater tights w/ baggy socks for winter. All in neutral colors so she won't dislike them.
I think I only pushed the envelope when I got her a gorgeous form fitting black merino wool sweater, and a stack of merino tights in three colors to go with it. She raised her eyebrow at me and said, "Tights, you bought me tights?" I said, "Don't blame me, blame your beautiful legs." She doesn't mind getting tights if they are pretty and classy. Diamonds and
Wolfordsare a girl's best friend, she once told me. She hated tights before I met her, and now she has the best dressed legs west of NYNY. Sometimes, though rarely, she wears really slinky sheer tights and Louboutins. Those are special days.
She wants a
Burberry peaor trench coat. That's something I can't surprise her with because the nicer styles aren't neutral and need to be fitted. Sooooooooooo lovely though.
She can buy all this stuff herself; she makes more money than I do, but she's too modest to totally dosh out on herself, I think. Not to mention, she's pretty flattered when I think of her with my wallet and my heart.
So there.
Also, I'm stoned as hell again, booze and oxy makes me blibber blabber with the keyboard too much. And those shoes arrived Wednesday, and I haven't fcuked them. They really are works of art. Perfect craftsmanship, nice deep black finish, and the leather smells pretty damned good. She's going to looooove them.
It's not like I'm a crossdresser or anything, or a gay fashion designer. Nor do I have cash squirting out of my ears. No kids/no giant monthly expenses, single girlfriend whom I love and she lets me spoil her a bit. Sure, my tastes might run a but wild for those whose with mild constitutions, but they are harmless and fun. Also, way lots cheaper than getting married and divorced.
I suggest some of you try the Louboutins for the woman already if there's some really unexpected spice needed.
THESE. Classy, sexy.