If we're planning on staying most of the time in Tokyo, is it easier to go with hotel stays or is AirBnB or like a hostel a better choice?
how long is your honeymoon? 2 weeks or 3 weeks? cuz imo you do NOT want to move around tokyo with your luggage, it's just so packed, in that respect you might want to have a "home base" and not move around for a bit.
i've done:
hostels
capsule
hotels
love hotels
in tokyo, i guess i'm missing air bnb.
1.
hostel - cheap, i checked and we did 6 nights for 240 for two of us, that is the only "pro". cons are some hostels are not mixed dorm either fem or male only, so you can easily fuck up booking that way. your bunkmates are gonna be 6 other "kids" that think they're cute and don't snore. i did one hostel this last trip cuz i wanted to be close to shopping and know the hostel from last time, but when you book as a couple you get the top and bottom bunk, fucking shit you ain't 9 no more, climbing up that ladder after a full day of walking..., also you're sleeping on if you're lucky a padded quilt on top of a wood plank, ain't no air or springs or foam here.
bathrooms are obviously gonna be shared, might or might not be an issue for you, one time i stayed in a converted hotel house in kyoto, the bathrooms were outside, literally an outhouse, and fucking cold, thank god they still had modern bidets and the seats were heated. also youre gonna take a shower and then what? you're gonna have to hang that damp ass towel inside your bunk, it might be dank, heck if you or someone else forgets to hang the towel and just leave it bunch up... stank. (so advice is, if you're going this route buy a quick drying microfiber towel, i have 3 and their amazing and fold up into the size of a psp)
you're not gonna have onsite laundry, so you're gonna have to go to a laundromat and waste 2 hours of your vacation just sitting there and waiting (sure you can catch up on emails, plan the next day, etc...)
you can't fuck... it's your honeymoon...
2.
capsule hotel - a bit more than a hostel, cuz it's basically just an upgraded hostel, the pros (from a hostel) is you're gonna have on site laundry and it'll be a hotel so you'll have 24 hour concierge, this is important if you want to send/receive luggage as the luggage service called tae-q-bin only ships from hotel to hotel.
Luggage Delivery Between Hotels | Traveling to Japan | YAMATO TRANSPORT GLOBAL (there are other service that accomodate hostels and airbnb, i don't know em tho)
3.
it's a hotel, one thing i noticed when i was searching for hotels, some hotels are kind of away out of the main areas, so keep that in mind when booking with a hotel, on my just past trip i made sure all my accomodations were 5min or less (i had two hotels that were literally on the same block as the trainstation) from transportation.
every bonus is here, usually your own fridge, your own toilet, a real fucking bed, you can bone...
4.
love hotels - yo, the love hotel i stayed in had the best bed, unfortunately for booking love hotels are a nightly affair cuz really it's just for japs to bone, either cuz they live w/ their parents or prostitutes, it'll be difficult to book in advance. no one is gonna help you out, you're not gonna see the concierge face and they don't want to see yours, ALSO if you do goto a love hotel, you're gonna want to do it EARLY in the night, cuz as the night goes on, they get FILLED UP, japs like to fuck. We went to the hilly ikebukuro love hotel strip and shopped around (you can see digitally what rooms are available, etc in the lobby), we noticed after 1 hour of browsing rooms were getting sparse and we were like "fuck we need a room or we have no where to sleep!!!"
once you select your room in the lobby, you get told where to go and once you step into the room, the door doesn't lock and you'll see a pay station right in your room. you pay for the night (or the hours as thats what the japs do) and your door locks (don't think about leaving cuz once you open it, thats it)
you'll get a complimentary condom and access to mosaic jap porn.