The things Vanessa listed as being horrible for the trans person, the hair the manly features etc. would not this same thing apply to ugly people? There are lots of ugly people. Seems we are often blurring the line between wanting to transition and be attractive. Vanessa shows pictures of "attractive" trans people. Very few people fit the standards of attractive and it seems we are adding the additional hurdle for success which is already too low, that you must also come out looking good at the end. Jerle didnt look good, BUT there are natural born women just as ugly as transitioned Jerle but they dont have some ridiculous suicide rate.
That's because the coinflip on which end of the shotgun to man came up tails on the ugly ones. They are not around to fawn over like the plastic doll trap "success" stories. Mind you, when those supposedly successful ones hit age 40 and their body starts desperately trying to heal the self inflicted wounds, they are not exactly going to look pretty either.