Vanessa's Tranny AMA Blog Thread

jayrebb said:

Skyrocketed. No worse time to get into it. Its become a Brazilian economy. Street hookers command upscale escort rates now and every girl no matter how street walker trash is vying for the 1% market. A little bit of botox, rebranding yourself as 30 over 45, foundation on your track marks and you're ready to advertise as an elite companion starting at 500 for extremely short low quality company.

I'd assume its due to a either a lack of availability of sex, a shortage of sex workers to meet demand (likely in America), or the growing 1% rich get richer situation which is able to meet and tolerate the price.

Its no longer worth it as a hobby. You can find the occasional 300 rate still, but really unless you're "in" you aren't going to get reasonable rates on even mediocre drug addled "escorts".

Basically everyone charges GFE/Escort rates now, regardless of how trash and low quality the service is. The asking rate now is only 200 dollars less than a pornstar escort. So you are better off just going with a PSE. As Itzo alluded to earlier the American dynamic is much different. Hobbying isn't really a thing any more. Its all sugar daddys rates in America and the professionalism is lacking.

Go to Thailand.

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I have so many questions I don't even know where to begin. I'm going to need a bit of time here.

jayrebb said:

Skyrocketed. No worse time to get into it. Its become a Brazilian economy. Street hookers command upscale escort rates now and every girl no matter how street walker trash is vying for the 1% market. A little bit of botox, rebranding yourself as 30 over 45, foundation on your track marks and you're ready to advertise as an elite companion starting at 500 for extremely short low quality company.

I'd assume its due to a either a lack of availability of sex, a shortage of sex workers to meet demand (likely in America), or the growing 1% rich get richer situation which is able to meet and tolerate the price.

Its no longer worth it as a hobby. You can find the occasional 300 rate still, but really unless you're "in" you aren't going to get reasonable rates on even mediocre drug addled "escorts".

Basically everyone charges GFE/Escort rates now, regardless of how trash and low quality the service is. The asking rate now is only 200 dollars less than a pornstar escort. So you are better off just going with a PSE. As Itzo alluded to earlier the American dynamic is much different. Hobbying isn't really a thing any more. Its all sugar daddys rates in America and the professionalism is lacking.

Go to Thailand.

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OK, so nothing you said didn't make sense, but the whole idea of an escort budget is what was baffling me to start. It makes sense if I think about it some, but it's still an alien idea to me. So it sounds like you're saying there's different widely recognized tiers of service? I assumed there was like a street level hooker service, vs. a phone/delivery type service that's higher tier, then maybe the Sasha Grey 'The Girlfriend Experience' tier of $1500 a night prostitution. No judgment, it's just that you speak about this so casually that I'm fascinated at the level of familiarity. The only exposure I had to prostitutes was really, really nasty hookers outside of Marine bases in CA or NC. Never got one and never wanted to know more after. Clearly there's a whole really interesting market dynamic going on that I know nothing about.

Lunis can you add anything to what jayrebb said? I'd love to know how the market for TS prostitutes compares to the hetero market. I'd assume that the TS market is more expensive because I bet there'd be a lower amount of high quality sex workers.

jayrebb said:

Skyrocketed. No worse time to get into it. Its become a Brazilian economy. Street hookers command upscale escort rates now and every girl no matter how street walker trash is vying for the 1% market. A little bit of botox, rebranding yourself as 30 over 45, foundation on your track marks and you're ready to advertise as an elite companion starting at 500 for extremely short low quality company.

I'd assume its due to a either a lack of availability of sex, a shortage of sex workers to meet demand (likely in America), or the growing 1% rich get richer situation which is able to meet and tolerate the price.

Its no longer worth it as a hobby. You can find the occasional 300 rate still, but really unless you're "in" you aren't going to get reasonable rates on even mediocre drug addled "escorts".

Basically everyone charges GFE/Escort rates now, regardless of how trash and low quality the service is. The asking rate now is only 200 dollars less than a pornstar escort. So you are better off just going with a PSE. As Itzo alluded to earlier the American dynamic is much different. Hobbying isn't really a thing any more. Its all sugar daddys rates in America and the professionalism is lacking.

Go to Thailand.

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Also, you said 'hobby.' I never thought of fucking as a hobby, but if you're paying for specific service I can see it. What price point would you consider to be worth it as a hobby and what is the price point at now for 'hobby' tier of service?

I'm thinking of guns as a hobby for example. If handguns are my thing, and I want one gun and want to just go to the range once a month, I can get all I want out of a $500 pistol and the cost of common ammunition. If I'm niche about it, maybe I'm spending $1000 on a really nice pistol and going a few times a month, or maybe I have uncommon ammo. Same thing with any hobby, really; there's different levels of buy in.

What's it like being a hobbyist for prostitution?

I just got laid last night; ex and I kissed and made up (for now) Anyway, on to this zeppelin of a post:

Ravishing said:

Interesting thread, I've debated posting here.
I'm not an intolerant person at all, but I do have some major issues with the Trans movement.
I'll just jot down my comments in list form as it's quite wide ranging and incoherent.

1.) If we didn't live in the age we do where people can do all sorts of things to their bodies, for example you couldn't get a boob job or invert your dick, what would you do?
1A.) Without the ability to change your gender, without that option being possible or known at all, do you believe you would have still believed you should have been a woman, or do you think the lack of medical ability & social awareness might have just made you live a normal life as an effeminate male?
1B.) Still assuming you couldn't change your gender, do you believe you could have lived a happy life, or would you have been depressed, possibly suicidal?

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I'd live life as a man suffering from gender dysphoria. Yes, I'd still have gender dysphoria regardless of what's possible or not. The medicine / science didn't somehow give rise to trannies. There's always been trannies. I was never an effeminate male sans my early early childhood. I'd be happy as a guy, just not as happy as I could be on a fundamental level.

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2.) I think it's perfectly normal for people to be curious about the opposite sex, it's part of the attraction, I also believe this curiosity can run so amok that you have people strongly believing they should have been the opposite sex all along, that the opposite sex "has it better", or that they were born to be the opposite sex simply because their mannerisms and personality align better there.

3.) I also believe there are a ton of people seeking attention, and they'll do it by either choosing to be Trans, or choosing to be an apache attack helicopter, or simply want to be called a different pronoun so as to be distinguished from everyone else. With the focus on these Trans+ groups recently, more and more attention-getters are latching on. It's like they are joining a High School club. All of a sudden you have a "lost" person decide to join the "Trans" club. Instantly they can feel satisfaction knowing they now "belong" to a community.
3A.) The internet culture seems to aid this nicely as you can easily find other "group members" online, and now the people yearning to be accepted somewhere have an instant support group out of thin air.
3B.) As well as a political movement/group to rally with, etc. It's really tailor-made for the social outcasts.

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You've never read my posts I take it. I've laid out my thoughts many times on this particular matter, but for quick summation: you're not wrong, but non-binary zhe/zhey non-medicating terf-hating trannies and medically transitioned, binary, gender dysphoria suffering post-op trannies are as similar as comparing a mechanic to a fashion model and calling them both "Americans". Transgender we both are. Similar as humans with shared, like-minded identities we are not.

Ravishing said:

4.) Subjugating kids and young adults to hormone blockers & the works is child abuse.

5.) Trans is a mental illness first and foremost.

6.) If someone is so mentally damaged that they choose to live life as the opposite sex, I really couldn't care less. Everyone should have the freedom to live the way they want. But please don't force your mental illness on the rest of the population. Trans bathrooms, healthcare, education, etc.
6A.) I have more respect for Adults who transition simply because at least they've had time to work through and diagnose their illness. I am repulsed by parents who let their kids do it, or even worse, force it upon their kids. The parents should be punished for child abuse, lose custody, be forced to seek help, etc.
6B.) If you really want to live life as the opposite sex, just do it. There shouldn't be a need to publicize it. I can understand where this might be a huge gray area, particularly for the "unpassable" trans people.
6C.) Lets be real here, if you LOOK male, you're a male. Use the mens room. For the sake of society and keeping everyone comfortable, just do it. Why do you really need to use the women's room? If you are a passable Female (or FTM), then use that restroom. Simple. The big issue I see are the "unpassable" trans people throwing up arms because they feel entitled to the "whatever gender bathroom they've declared themselves to be". Don't force your uncomfortable situation upon others.
6C.) If you get hated on or abused by someone for being trans, let local law enforcement and the courts handle it. As a human being you still have rights. There should be some common sense laws that handle most issues I think. We don't need special laws for every fringe group of people.
6D.) We don't need to "educate" people about every fringe group.

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^ This is more or less soap-boxy, not even questions. I actually agree with all of this, but I think you exemplify the perfectly common person and don't realize that while we are few and far in between, there ARE trannies out there who don't support the ideology of the trans community as a collective precisely DUE to this narrative that tarnishes the public's perception of us.

Ravishing said:

7.) The general population shouldn't be forced to provide funding or healthcare for every single mental illness/disease.
7A.) Even if we could, the healthcare that's chosen is likely not the one that's most desired to be prescribed by the general populace. For example, if I could choose how to treat a trans person, I'd start with therapy. Their choice would be plastic surgeons, hormone therapy, etc. Letting a person with a mental illness choose their own treatment seems like a bad idea to me.
7B.) Neither method is proven to "cure" the illness. Changing gender is no greater of a cure than simply trying to fix their brains.

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With all due respect, you're talking from a position of ignorance on this point. We DO start with therapy. It is demonstrably useless if the goal is to cure / lessen gender dysphoria... ask ANY tranny or parent of a tranny that have sent their child to a psychologist to -fix- their dysphoria. You can't just "therapy" your way through this. It's a life-long mental illness, and you're 100% wrong stating that changing gender isn't a cure. It is literally the cure to gender dysphoria... not ideal, but it works, and works well.

Ravishing said:

8.) I'll admit that "trans" people are very interesting to me. Simply because "figuring out" people is very interesting. Also I'm a fan of "people watching". I am really curious what a typical day at work is like for a trans person. More specifically, the "beginning days" when you were still trying to figure out how to be the opposite sex. That first time entering the other bathroom. Or what that feeling was like when you first got your tits. Or what it feels like to chop off your dick. Things I'll never choose to experience myself, but BIG moments for a trans person to experience.
8A.) How peoples minds work always interests me and I always wonder how much of this is for attention, or due to social pressures/norms/awareness, or if in this one particular case, it actually is someone with a mental condition where they always saw themselves as the opposite gender.

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My typical work day is guys slapping my ass, calling me Sir Titsalot, girls doing the "Jerry! Jerry!" fist shake while a bunch of sweaty mens dance on the table around me during lunch while a disco ball drops from the ceiling, and my boss sucking my dick in the janitors closet after I make over 100% rate for the day.

Or, y'know... it's just like anyone else's work day I'll let you decide what's more likely.

Transition is the epitome of an evolution. Things you think are big events like surgery experiences are really just being zonked out for a couple of weeks on percocets and healing from being all bruised, bandaged and weak/incapacitated. If you've never had major surgery, here's a lil tidbit: it really puts you out both physically and mentally. I don't even remember the first time I went into the women's restroom; that's how inconsequential it was for me. It's where I went when I had to take a leak... not the portal to a sacred shrine LoL

Ravishing said:

9.) And lastly, to tag onto the conversation above. I agree that "being attracted" to Buck Angel or Blaire White doesn't make you gay. They are clearly convincing as Male/Female respectively. Attraction is more than genitalia. Personally I'm a butt/hips/thighs guy. I really doubt any MTF trans people would fit my desire simply because it's going to be near impossible for a male to replicate that part of the female anatomy. But I will contest that Blaire White and some others are still infinitely more attractive than a vast number of people born to that gender.
9A.) However, after finding out they still have a dick or vag.. or even if post-surgery and you finally discover they have the same chromosomal makeup as yourself, and if you're still attracted, then you're gay (by definition). But I don't consider gayness as a negative, love is love, so whatever. I'll just never understand it tbh.
9B.) Per my previous remark, my belief is that your sex is determined by your chromosomes and cannot be changed. A trans person can change their gender, but not their sex.

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Again, soap-boxy stuff that I agree with except trannies get ass/hips/thighs with HRT (my own examples are telling) but usually not in cis range due to smaller hip bones but there's BBL surgery for all your cis-passing needs.

I'm tired of arguing the straight / gay point. Fine... all guys who have ever been with a tranny are gay... gayer than Freddie Mercury playing a love song on the piano to a naked Quentin Crisp on top of said piano.

Erronius said:

Regardless of our opinions on Trans topics, we can all agree those where some Tigole Bitties

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I've been down this road before

Erronious, I agree those were some Tigoles... if you like pulling out a pile of padding from a FF cup size bra. The ironic humor of a tranny with fake tits calling out another tranny (CD is more apropos imho) with fake faker tits is not lost on me, trust me. I'm in absolute compliance with being labeled petty or catty when it comes to MsBehavn but y'all got duped by a crossdresser back in the day, not a tranny in the purest sense of the word. Look, if they/she were something else that I'm not respecting and they/she want to retort or call me out, that's fine... I'd have no qualms apologizing to them if more evidence or facts presented themselves. Until that day happens, I'm staunch on the idea that they were a trap with a stuffed bra and a wig i.e. a crossdresser.

Morrow is the only VanessaApproved™ legit tranny up in this piece. I think poor Jerle was legit, but damn... that's a rough topic to rehash. Secrets (not linking name because idk if they want to be associated with this shit) is or was a crossdresser as far as I know. I suspect one other stealthy tranny is here but wishes to remain anonymous or at the very most somewhat distanced from this thread... who knows, who cares really I guess.

Kuriin said:

Vanessa , why are you even responding to him?

He says trans is a mental illness first and foremost as line item number 5. What a moron. Also, subjugating kids and young adults to hormone blockers is a form of child abuse? What about the parents who buy their kids stereotypical gender-specific toys for their kids? And when the kids don't want those toys but want the other gender specific toy? Would you force your child to just deal with it?

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I try my best to edify anyone and everyone willing to post... I think the reason this thread has garnered the traction it has is because I'm a tranny that is nigh impervious to being offended, I answer any/all questions, and am open to dialogues. Nothing's off limits (except maybe discussing my dick size on a public forum; RIGHT SLYMINXY?). Oh and tits.

If we are splitting hairs, then yes, he's incorrect that "trans" is a mental illness but I assumed (based on his kinda coming out of nowhere post) that he may have meant Gender Dysphoria and the whole big fucking umbrella of it all as laypeople see it. I'm more than happy to clarify if it is needed on a specific point.