Funny side note. My wifes mom also lived through the cultural revolution. She's pretty blown away when she's here, our house being bigger than her entire apartment building when she grew up. However, many of her roots are still here: She gardens in the back yard, and we grow a ton of food based on mini-gardens she's set up throughout our back yard. It's kinda weird, but it's nice at the same time never having to buy peaches, garlic, potatoes, tomatos, etc. My wife insists on giving her mom money too, which doesn't bother me. My wife makes well over 100k a year, so even when her mom is in China we can completely support her on less than 10k a year (although that is rapidly becoming not the case).