Dude, did you talk to a single NPC when you were started? Even one? You have to kill maybe a dozen, two dozen mobs to get to the end of the "newbie island" area you"re on, before you get stripped of all your gear that you started with (you look uber right off the bat, btw), and dropped into the "real" starting town. It should take you no more than 15 minutes, even if you don"t know what you"re doing. Then you can jump right into the mob grinding and e-peen wielding.
I thought that starting area was fucking awesome, because it starts with some fairly interesting lore and has you make a couple RP-oriented choices about what you"re doing (slaughtering innnocents).
In a lot of ways, that starting area reminds me of the intro for FF2.