Do you actually believe every Male is some well rounded creature of the game especially in tech jobs? I used to work with a guy who went on a date with an intern at one of my first IT jobs. Mind you this guy was a very smart individual, and the girl was gorgeous. I tended to come to work later than anyone else because I just don't do mornings. Anyways they went on their date and I came into work around 10:30AM the next day. I asked him how it went and he said great, and that he had sent her an email. I said oh really? What did the email say? and he told me that he really really liked her and just couldn't linger and needed to know how she felt. I told him he royally fucked up and had no chance now.Wow, the incels are really showing themselves in this thread.
You don't write something like that to someone you work with. That guy is clearly a psychotic stalker-type.
Now I never saw this email, but she politely told him they could be "friends" which means get fucked in female speak. I only write this because there are a plethora of socially awkward men who genuinely like these women that receive the awkward letters/emails. The only women who likely haven't had some sort of embarrassing letter like this handed to them are ugly, or do not associate with many men.