As far as the Girl Boss shit? I ... I just dont see it. I see different shades of butch women. Anbessa's weakness has been on full display for us, not only when she was fighting an inexperienced Caitlyn (she won, but she got hurt). But her Lieutenant is literally there, guarding her. A red shirt, none the less, but a specific red shirt. A red shirt that Caitlyn, Jinx and Vi are all afraid of getting caught by. Who ONLY dies to another man, Vander'wick. Caitlyn is shown to have a good parry (I guess signifying her net shot in game?) but she's not a hand 2 hand fighter. Jinx literally gets fucking high and her schizo side comes out so she can move quick enough to avoid capture - with Vi herself pointing out that without her traps and tricks - shes fucking useless. Then we have Violet, which we specifically see in both season 1 and season 2, get her ass beat in boxing. She starts off each boxing sequence kicking some dudes ass, but it always "fades to shadows" to show her getting her ass beat, and then we see her washed up somewhere. Without her hextech gloves - she's a fucking useless drunk. Which, funny enough was shown right after she said Jinx was useless and took her gloves off.
Men are overwhelmingly masculine power houses in the show. Women are playing their parts, through quick witted, agile, and dexterous positions.