I play with 2 friends, and we are having a lot of fun. We're fairly casual though, we play a lot but we are casual in our approach to the game. One hit 50 a few days ago, the other is 43 or so.
We quest as a group, we just started Rockbourne...we actually skipped most of Ynestere, Halcyon, Hellswamp and Sandkeep because we were not getting any coinpurses. It will probably take us another few weeks to finish the other zones.
We run tradepacks during peacetime, or in safe zones. Sometimes in off peak hours we do intercontinental traderoutes. We have toons on the other side to watch which port is kinda safe.
We farm and craft a lot. I make about 200gp+. We'll farm our Hasla weapons when we are all 50 during peacetime, if we bother at all with them and just get crafted ones.
We haven't been lucky with Thunderstruck...so no Farm Cart or Fishing Boat yet...not sure how dangerous fishing is on our server...but we'll see at some point.
We all work together on stuff, pool our ressources together like a guild does just at a much smaller scale...we'll accomplish our goals, at our own pace, and have fun.
While a large guild would make things faster, we're in no rush...and as such haven't felt at any real disadvantage by not being in one...farmwille and peacetime is cool for us to be honest, we do adventure in pvp zone during tension period too, we don't only go during peacetime. We try to avoid war time in general, because we encounter too many organized big groups farming honor...but with so many options it's actually rare that this is an issue.
I'm curious to see how Auroria will be...