You have to understand that this isn't an MMO where shit just instantly gets invalidated all the time(like WoW and a new expansion, for instance). People have been playing this for YEARS, so expecting to get "caught up" to their level of progress is totally naive. As is expecting to do "ALL THE CONTENT NOW!!". This game is Korean, nearly every system is a grind. If you aren't prepared to make small, incremental progress, you're honestly probably not going to enjoy BDO. It's 100% about being the turtle in the race, not the hare.