Are you saying it's impossible for men to just to error on the side of basic human decency in borderline cases? You're just insulting yourself and your own gender by saying you can't take the high road because the only way you can get sex is to take advantage a girl in a vulnerable state.Nope.
If you give consent it isn't rape. If you are drunk and you consent it isn't rape. If you are drunk and someone woos you and you consent it isn't rape. Threats, force, unconsciousness? Rape. Seduction? Not rape. If you get drunk and decide you want to fuck someone and you fuck them you weren't raped. Are you really going to take the position that your gender are all dainty flowers that must be regarded as though they were children when alcohol is present?
And you call others misogynists.