I totally understand and agree with this viewpoint on combat for 99.9% of games. However Daoc had dogshit combat with a UI to match and the game was fun as hell. I'm not saying that CU will pull this same sort of feeling off (who fucking knows) but I will say that its way too early to tell. Vit's approach is prolly the best at this point, wait and see what things look like in 6-8 months because I don't think there will be much to see before then. Leastwise not for those outside Alpha/Beta. However making any final judgments at this point is silly.
I only played DAOC for a little while. I was way too wrapped up in EQ at the time to give it a good go (and I kind of regret that now). And, frankly, I'm not in CU alpha or anything, so I can't claim that in its current state it's hopeless or anything.
It's just been my experience with this genre that optimizing engine/netcode stuff can only correct combat problems to a certain extent. To use some totally arbitrary numbers: By alpha, your combat fluidity and character responsiveness shouldn't feel more than 20% off. Optimizations
maybe able to correct for 20%, but probably not much more than that. "Ice skating around with your sword in the air when casting your basic melee ability" (great descrip btw) sounds way more than 20% off...
But, like you said, some people may not mind that type of combat. I hate it. I need something way more tactile and crisp. Honestly, I think most people do, even if they don't realize it. Lack of fluidity and responsiveness creates a real disconnect with the game (and your character). I've found over time that I am the type of person that notices even a little disconnect and it ruins the game for me.
You can criticize plenty of things about WoW and EQ, but the character responsiveness was damn good for both games. I don't think it's coincidence they stand as two of the most successful titles in the genre. Hell, I worked at Sigil and I could barely stand to play Vanguard because of the noticeable disconnect caused by lack of character responsiveness to the environment.
Anyway, I hope the best for CU, but if I was an investor, your description would have me popping tums right now.