The great Frank TJ Mackey gave us a few simple rules that will catapult you to more successful dates.
The 14 day rule is easily the most simple and useful. If you really like someone and had a great date, then you must wait 14 days to ask them out again. You must be hard on yourself, do not break this.
Second is setting jealousy traps. Everyone has a friend or acquaintance that is really good looking. Let them know you need to use them to set a jealousy trap - make sure they show up to whatever public event your date ends up at - not a restaurant preferably.
Once the date sees that you are friendly with better looking women, she will get upset and then competitive to win you against the jealousy trap.
These are basic, but should double your numbers if you’re interested in psychological warfare. I know I know, you just want yo be yourself. Too bad! They’re showing up armed, you need to lock n load.
I think this might be a joke post but I can't tell because the second half is actually a good bit. Having a female friend show up at an event, so you can pay some attention to her, would most certainly make you multiple times more desirable to your date.
My closest female friend who isn't dead at this point is a very hot blonde. We had our moment, she turned me down, now she's taken. She has still been a good wingman for me before. I'm certain I could get her to show up at an event to make a date jealous, and her having blonde hair, blue eyes, and a TV-ready face would probably do the trick in making another girl jealous of my attention. That or just threatened to the point that they think it isn't gonna work, I could see that happening too. She also has hot friends and once offered to set me up with one of them, which I turned down, because I was interested in her. Lawl, I can be a dumbass sometimes.
Now for the "14 day rule", that's absolutely retarded, I'm sorry. Waiting half a month does absolutely nothing except open the door for another guy to shift into her interest zone. Not just open a door, open all the windows too. There's a lot of competition out there and any given woman gains new prospects just walking down the street. You have to stay in that interest zone and keep her engaged.
The girl I was with for like 7 years, I waited 3 days to ask her out again after our first date because I wanted to "keep her guessing". Was gonna ask her out on the 4th or 5th day after, but on the 3rd she was like "sooooo are you gonna ask me out on another date or what?" so I did it then and we were together a long time.
She later told me that even 3 days was too long and she was actually starting to lose interest / wonder if I was some kind of fuckboi playing games. Said if I'd waited another day or two she might have just moved on. There was another guy (an Indian doctor) who she'd gone out with a week or so previous and he was trying to get her to go out with him again, but she was hoping I'd work out because she had a lot more fun with me. She didn't care about people's money or whatever.
Second date was good, then the next day she got into an accident. Didn't respond to my messages for two days and I thought I'd done something wrong. Then I got a "had an accident so I'm injured, this just isn't a good time for me to date someone, I'm sorry" type text from her. Again I had an option, I could either be aloof and Keep It Real by not responding for a while, or I could do what I did. Went and got some flowers and showed up at her place with them. She was all bruised and bandaged up, and I told her it didn't matter to me that she looked like a mess, and we sat on the couch chilling for a few hours. After that we were an official item.
Point is, I didn't Keep It Real, I just went with what made sense. I tried the aloof thing with other girls and it never worked. I can remember a couple of girls in particular who I had a good time with, then just held off on texting them again to "build mystery" and make them reach out to me first. It's been about 9 years and I'm still waiting for them to text first. Diamond-handsing like fuck over here.
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pharmakos , you should really give give U-R-Gay woman the D. Hope she comes back to you, cheers.
). She genuinely is busy as fuck tho. The hot and cold shit fucks with my head sometimes of course, but I'm trying to be understanding. Only one time in the three months we've been talking where I ended up losing my cool a little. Was drunk one night and texted her a kind of butthurt emo message wondering why I hadn't heard from her in a bit. Looking back I'm surprised but she actually reacted well. I think SHE was surprised that I was even bothered at all, I think maybe she doesn't realize I'm ACTUALLY into her? Idk. Tough nut to crack. We have great energy when we're together tho, so even tho the distance / time gaps are a bummer... Still out of all the women in my life the one I'm hoping for. Idk if I'd call it "love" at the moment (I genuinely try to love everyone so... Can be hard to tell sometimes lol) but yeah. 
