I have the same issue with crafting/blacksmithing, but I think the mage you get in town (I forget, is his name Jahan?) has a perk that adds to it anyway, so I figure I might as well give it to him.
Telling a friend about the game and finally getting him to play it, I made sure to mention how much I hate the fucking animations making you mis-click. If it is even remotely difficult to click on, I hit B now to make sure I'm clicking the right spot. Even still, every once in awhile you still get a fuckup. I have gotten in the habit of saving big fights halfway through just because of that. I'm not save scumming, but I've fucked up enough close fights and lost due to shitty targeting that I don't want to do it all over again.
I started over after being level 10 because I was already saving skill books and such for a respec because I already knew I fucked up some point placements, which was killing my enjoyment (and effectiveness) because I was only using the skills I started with, but google told me I probably wouldn't be there until level 16'ish, so I started over and am actually still enjoying playing all of the old content. For one thing, I have completed a LOT more of the in-town stuff this time around. It actually makes me worry that maybe I was missing a ton of other shit too after seeing how much I missed in the first town. Mainly because I got bored and just left to go kill stuff, but I never really came back and made sure I finished/explored everything else either. Well, and this time I rushed immediately to getting the Hall of Heroes, so I was able to hire a new character to replace Madora about the same time I dinged level 3. I was a little disappointed to find that a level 1 didn't level up to 3 like I thought it would (thought I read patch notes to that effect, but maybe not), but at this point it is only a fraction of a level behind anyway.
Still pissy that I couldn't get loot from
even with knowing not to sell to her the first time around, and I didn't feel like buying it from the dude with her, so fuck it. That's a stupid ass mechanic though.