So I'm gonna defend qwerty's position here...
I'm in charge of operations at a decently successful brew pub, and I bartend a couple nights of the week to augment my salary. When I get home from a shitty shift behind the bar, all I wanna do pour myself a drink, fire up my favorite MMO, and yes, lose myself in the world. Otherwise known as, relaxing.
This is the reason I will never desire super engaging combat (Gw2, Wildstar) or in game voice comm. There is nothing relaxing about hearing people yammer on over VC about the minutia of their lives, the game, or their genitals. This is especially true for me after I just spent 9 hours pouring vodka-water-bar-limes for 19 year olds who dot tip.
And you know what, it would even be THAT bad if people were a LITTLE fucking cool. But generally the vent channels of high end guilds are full of the following.
1. Dorks. Arrogant, lisping, sarcastic, dorks with an opinion on everything. I fucking hate dorks.
2. Boring sad people who just wanna chat about ANYTHING all the time.
3. Pseudo flirty 35-45 y.o. women, who the dorks try to impress constantly.
4. officers being SUPER SERIOUS 100% of the time.
5. Cliques spouting bullshit jokes.
The only guild I have been in that wasn't like this was Afterlife in Vanilla WoW... And even they had their share of dorks.