Being a fresh 50 tank is not easy. So many DPS with high-end gear.
Any tips to help with that?
As Nehrak mentionned, find a better weapon. I don't know how "fresh" you are, but when you hit 50 you have these options:
- GC i55 weapon, this is garbage but it's "free" and easy to get.
- Relic precursor i55, this is also garbage and is more expensive, but you'll most likely want to buy one for the relic quest anyway. Getting it crafted is cheaper. Aeolian Scimitar for Paladin, Barbarian's Bardiche for War.
- Giantsgall i70 crafted weapons, these are relatively cheap if you know an alchemist who can craft them, around 10-15k or so in mats and they're a good starting point, but if you don't know anyone, they're not worth the price they're sold at generally.
After those, you want to start your Relic quest. You need to finish the main story arc(empire stuff) and your lvl 50 class quests obviously to start this in North Shroud. It's a bunch of tasks, takes a bit of time and culminates with killing the 3 main primals on hard mode. Need i57 for titan(though you'll get a bunch of soldiery on the way for first time dungeons, which you should use on belt then jewelry to boost your ilvl asap). If you have a decent FC, people should help you on these, it's very good soldiery with first time bonus and doesn't take too long. Relic is an i80 weapon.
From there, 2 choices. You either spend 450soldiery upgrading your relic to i90 then farm atmas for a few hours to upgrade it to i100 OR you get to i70 doing the easy dungeons/roulettes, do Labyrinth of the Ancients to unlock Syrcus Tower, get an Unidentified Allagan Tomestone there, get 1300soldiery and buy a i100 soldiery weapon which you can then upgrade to 110 with another ST drop(Sands of Time). Considering you'll probably be doing ST for a while to gear up, I'd recommend the 2nd option as the first tends to be a waste of time and soldiery unless you want to complete the relic quest, but it's grindy as all fuck and there's good chances you won't be done before the expansion unless you play a lot and have high tolerance for bullshit RNG grinds.
For the fastest i70, short of spending stupid money on shitty gear, you'll want to do first time completion of the easy dungeons, all the roulettes you can and spend all those soldiery on upgrading your belt and jewelry(as a tank, get a tank ring and a str DPS ring too). It shouldn't take long. Also run Labyrinth asap to unlock ST, you might get lucky on drops in there. You can also farm that if you want for drops.