This. And when you pussyfoot around with a girl long enough, she thinks that your only interest is in being friends. At which point, she quickly moves you off the "fuck me, please!" list.Vimeseh said:
Tell him, have him show up while they are fucking in the car, grab popcorn, enjoy. Also post here afterward.please Shutup said:
I"ve contemplated it actually, but she"d almost know without a shadow of a doubt that it was me. We used to be pretty good friends and she knows stuff about me that could jeopardize my job, so I"ve held out. I do know the guy, so i kind of contemplate it occasionally.Passenger said:
Give me a name, I will handle it =)please Shutup said:
Don"t tell him directly and explicitly then, arrange for a way for him to find out. If it seems like a coincidence, she"ll have less grounds to blame you. I"m sure you can devise some way to get him into the parking lot at the appointed time without your visible involvement. The fact that this goes on regularly, almost on a schedule, will only help divert the attention from you being the whistle blower if he seems to discover her skankicity through "accident" or "coincidence."please Shutup said:
Divorce is a messy, expensive piece of hell best avoided at all costs. If she"s cheating on him regularly now, in the open and it"s widely known, it"s unlikely she"s going to stop when they get married, and even more unlikely she"ll manage not to get caught.Kirun said:
From a legal perspective, that might not even matter to the courts and he"d get shit on regardless. For some men, the financial burden coupled with the emotional burden would be to much to handle.Arative said:
Kids definitely his, looks identical to him. The dudes anti internet though and I don"t have his phone number. Only way I had access to informing him was by telling his cousin on facebook, but just never went through with it. I thought about going to HR with the issue, because it basically is on a daily schedule. Not really interested in getting fired though, just feel for her fianc?.Arative said:
As someone who was cheated on at one point, I think you need to find a way to let the guy know. The longer it goes on the worse it is going to be for the guy to deal with, and he deserves to know now and have a chance to get away from her before he marries her and it becomes a million times harder.please Shutup said:
Well I think we are a bit friendlier people in general, but it"s more specific to my building. It has a website, Facebook group and so on. Only 40 suites, and the majority of the people know each other at least a little bit, there"s organized social gatherings a couple times a year and so on. I"m friends with at least 5-10 people in the building on Facebook. Limited profile of course.Wintermute said:
Met her a bit over a year ago at a block party type event. I was having a beer in a clothing store across the street from my place chatting with the girl who owned it, as we"ve known each other on and off since we were 12 or so. She introduced me to the new neighbor, we chatted for 5-10 minutes, and in that first conversation she said we"d have to share a bottle of wine one of these days. But after that I"d say I saw her for 30 seconds in the elevator a handful of times in the following year, with just the usual elevator talk.Kirun said:
