Those are some good new pics Brad. Still not a huge fan of your profile text but those pictures make you look like a fun guy.
Girls who broke your heart thread
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Brad2770
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My sister did talk to her and she was supposed to work, but didnt want to go in. I don"t think she bailed on work to hang with me, but maybe didn"t want to stay home... or plans with someone else got cancelled. I don"t care.Incognitogamer said:
My sister also told me she was bored playing pool, but she had fun with me. But if thats the case, I like that she told me. I hate girls that don"t say shit. My ex did that shit.
She pretty much told my sister about the whole night. And she told my sister she is surprised I have not tried to get her in bed already. Hope that is working for me, heh.
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Fucking Valentine"s Day... god I hate it. I broke up with my girlfriend back before the holidays, but I"m bracing for drama regardless.
I"m debating my options for the weekend. It"s been such a horrific week for a variety of reasons that I"m half tempted to stay home. Then again, another part of me would like nothing better than angry sex with a strange woman, and there"s bound to be a bunch of lonely hearts out on Saturday.
Decisions decisions...
I"m debating my options for the weekend. It"s been such a horrific week for a variety of reasons that I"m half tempted to stay home. Then again, another part of me would like nothing better than angry sex with a strange woman, and there"s bound to be a bunch of lonely hearts out on Saturday.
Decisions decisions...
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I"m glad I"m single tbh. A lot of people hate being single on valentines day, I like that I don"t need to go through the whole contrived, cliche create a cheesy romantic atmosphere or they"ll think you hate them crap. My ex was wanting to get back together with me a few weeks ago so I"m half expecting her to contact me and try get all dnm on me, but she can only be so annoying from half a country away.
haha, well I"m single for the first Valentines day in years. Haven"t had much luck on the dating sites, though because of my options and distance away of quality girls I haven"t sent many if any messages. BAM 3 days before Vday and my mail box is flooded by girls close by, far away, you name it. Most of them pretty hot, I"m starting to like this holiday more and more!
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^Yeah, that"s why when a ski trip came up for this weekend, I jumped on it immediately. Whether or not I was going out with someone, I had no intention of being around on Valentine"s Day. I figured if I WAS going out with someone and it was going well, I"d invite them along for the trip.
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So I finally get her out of there, and we head down to the tapas place. It"s literally seating for 20 people, under 1000 square feet. Just tiny. I"ve been there once or twice before, it"s a great date spot if you don"t mind the other 18 people in the place listening to your whole conversation. Xerxes the previous night when we had gone out to a pretty nice restaurant had made a big deal about yapping with the waiter about wine and "oh do you have this in a 2004, oh well 2005/6 wasn"t as good" and so on. She quite likes wine, or at least makes a big deal about liking wine. So when we sat down at the little 4 man bar at the back of the place (it was full otherwise), she immediately started yapping with the owner about wine, and pretty much had the exact same conversation "oh is this a 2004? Oh it"s not?" But a couple times during the conversation, it appeared to me that she didn"t know nearly as much about wine as she liked to think. I know nothing about wine, so maybe I am off base, but just judging from the reaction of the owner that appeared to be the case.
So pretty quickly the place cleared out and it was just the two of us and the owner and chef, who came and sat down beside us. She then proceeded to yak with the chef for the next 45 minutes about cheeses and good restaurants in the city and that they needed to add a tapa with goat cheese to the menu and on and on and on (she makes a big deal about her cooking and food knowledge as well). I pretty much just sat there and tried to look interested the whole time and it was exceedingly difficult. Eventually some loud mouthed englishman who was friends with the chef came in, and the conversation got interesting again.
She just really annoyed the hell out of me last night. I don"t know if she"s just trying to impress me personally, or if that"s how she always is, but she seems to try incredibly hard to make herself out to be knowledgeable about things, and well connected, and successful (she"s mentioned a couple times how much she makes or that she turned down X number of dollars for a raise to work more hours etc) and that kind of thing. She IS pretty intelligent, I can tell, and she has done well for herself but she seems really eager to prove herself, and it"s kind of annoying the shit out of me. The constant talking about wine vintages, sending the Stella back the first time I met her and refusing a Sol in place of a Corona, she"s really quite a bit of a princess.
It"s funny, cause I stop and think about what some of my friends have told me about myself, and it"s like she"s a twin of me, because I"ve been guilty of the same things. And apparently I can"t stand me.
On top of that, during a brief respite from the wine and food talk, she mentioned that she had to "talk to me about something" when we got back to my place. I was like "well why can"t we talk right now?" and once the owner had moved to serve a table she said that she"d been introduced to a guy awhile back by a friend, and had chatted with him on and off but nothing had happened up until she saw him at the bar on Saturday (when I was there). Apparently he had asked her out to dinner, and she was wanting to know what I thought of it.
Being that she is a smart cookie, I wonder if the other guy even exists (heh as I was typing this she texted me that she"d texted the other guy that she was seeing someone else). Either way, I was non-commital at first. I responded that we"d only gone on a few dates, and that I certainly didn"t have any business telling her whether or not she could see someone else, and wouldn"t be offended if she "hedged her bets." Right away she looked pretty disappointed and said something along the lines of "well I guess that"s the answer I was looking for." I backtracked and asked her what she would say if I told her that I was seeing someone else, or if she"d be upset or jealous or whatever. She immediately said yes she would be, and asked if I was. I said that no I wasn"t, and even if I had met someone else I wouldn"t because I just don"t have the time to date two people at once, and that I was going to see where things went with her before worrying about seeing someone else. She seemed pleased and/or relieved with that, and the conversation moved on.
I didn"t want to say "well, I thought you were cool up until about 2 hours ago but you"ve kind of annoyed the shit out of me" but nor did I want to say I was really digging her, cause I don"t.
So I think I now have a girlfriend. Weird. At least the sex after was fantastic.
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Not so sure I want that. So she came over after work last night, but when she got to my place I was in the middle of packing for the trip this weekend and said I"d need about 10 minutes. She said no problem, and went down a floor to visit with her friend that lives in the building. After I was done I went down there and hung out for a couple minutes, smoked a bowl (her friend is a pot head), and then the two of us got up to leave to go to a neat little spot just down the street for some wine and tapas. But as we got to the door of her place, she and her friend stood there yapping about work and talking with their boss and blah blah blah for literally I swear 5 minutes. I just stood there with my hand on the door knob, waiting for them to finish up. You could tell her friend found it awkward, but Xerxes just get yammering away.Grobbee said:
So I finally get her out of there, and we head down to the tapas place. It"s literally seating for 20 people, under 1000 square feet. Just tiny. I"ve been there once or twice before, it"s a great date spot if you don"t mind the other 18 people in the place listening to your whole conversation. Xerxes the previous night when we had gone out to a pretty nice restaurant had made a big deal about yapping with the waiter about wine and "oh do you have this in a 2004, oh well 2005/6 wasn"t as good" and so on. She quite likes wine, or at least makes a big deal about liking wine. So when we sat down at the little 4 man bar at the back of the place (it was full otherwise), she immediately started yapping with the owner about wine, and pretty much had the exact same conversation "oh is this a 2004? Oh it"s not?" But a couple times during the conversation, it appeared to me that she didn"t know nearly as much about wine as she liked to think. I know nothing about wine, so maybe I am off base, but just judging from the reaction of the owner that appeared to be the case.
So pretty quickly the place cleared out and it was just the two of us and the owner and chef, who came and sat down beside us. She then proceeded to yak with the chef for the next 45 minutes about cheeses and good restaurants in the city and that they needed to add a tapa with goat cheese to the menu and on and on and on (she makes a big deal about her cooking and food knowledge as well). I pretty much just sat there and tried to look interested the whole time and it was exceedingly difficult. Eventually some loud mouthed englishman who was friends with the chef came in, and the conversation got interesting again.
She just really annoyed the hell out of me last night. I don"t know if she"s just trying to impress me personally, or if that"s how she always is, but she seems to try incredibly hard to make herself out to be knowledgeable about things, and well connected, and successful (she"s mentioned a couple times how much she makes or that she turned down X number of dollars for a raise to work more hours etc) and that kind of thing. She IS pretty intelligent, I can tell, and she has done well for herself but she seems really eager to prove herself, and it"s kind of annoying the shit out of me. The constant talking about wine vintages, sending the Stella back the first time I met her and refusing a Sol in place of a Corona, she"s really quite a bit of a princess.
It"s funny, cause I stop and think about what some of my friends have told me about myself, and it"s like she"s a twin of me, because I"ve been guilty of the same things. And apparently I can"t stand me.
On top of that, during a brief respite from the wine and food talk, she mentioned that she had to "talk to me about something" when we got back to my place. I was like "well why can"t we talk right now?" and once the owner had moved to serve a table she said that she"d been introduced to a guy awhile back by a friend, and had chatted with him on and off but nothing had happened up until she saw him at the bar on Saturday (when I was there). Apparently he had asked her out to dinner, and she was wanting to know what I thought of it.
Being that she is a smart cookie, I wonder if the other guy even exists (heh as I was typing this she texted me that she"d texted the other guy that she was seeing someone else). Either way, I was non-commital at first. I responded that we"d only gone on a few dates, and that I certainly didn"t have any business telling her whether or not she could see someone else, and wouldn"t be offended if she "hedged her bets." Right away she looked pretty disappointed and said something along the lines of "well I guess that"s the answer I was looking for." I backtracked and asked her what she would say if I told her that I was seeing someone else, or if she"d be upset or jealous or whatever. She immediately said yes she would be, and asked if I was. I said that no I wasn"t, and even if I had met someone else I wouldn"t because I just don"t have the time to date two people at once, and that I was going to see where things went with her before worrying about seeing someone else. She seemed pleased and/or relieved with that, and the conversation moved on.
I didn"t want to say "well, I thought you were cool up until about 2 hours ago but you"ve kind of annoyed the shit out of me" but nor did I want to say I was really digging her, cause I don"t.
So I think I now have a girlfriend. Weird. At least the sex after was fantastic.
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Eomer, I think a woman that has been in a couple of failed relationships and has reached 28-30 usually start acting like that. Thats kind of why i like the younger ones, they act dumb (probably not intentionally) and it makes it fun to figure them out (sometimes) and impress them. But the older women, they dont wanna play around. they want the relationship and want it now. They will do everything they can to impress you. After awhile, it just gets fucking annoying.
And yes, from what you said last night, she is now telling her friends (and possibly family) that you are her boyfriend. You will know this for sure when she requires you to hold her hand in public.
Good luck with it, man. Hope it works out for you. If you dont want that, then hopefully Chuck will come crawling back. =D
And yes, from what you said last night, she is now telling her friends (and possibly family) that you are her boyfriend. You will know this for sure when she requires you to hold her hand in public.
Good luck with it, man. Hope it works out for you. If you dont want that, then hopefully Chuck will come crawling back. =D
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I"m that way too. I"m still good friends with my ex, she"s a great girl, and in many ways we"re both still moving past one another. However, I ultimately feel like in the long run we"ll be better off.Azrayne said:
I really doubt I"m in any condition to be dating anyone right now anyway. My folks are in the midst of what"s shaping up to be a very nasty divorce right in the middle of a recession, which isn"t exactly providing a stellar example. I"m really just trying to enjoy being single again, and trying to take things as they come. I"m in my mid-20s, it"s pretty much my prime.
Hmm. Maybe I"ll get out of the house this weekend after all. I"m sure there"s an 80s night happening at some bar in Atlanta. Stack Valentines Day on top of that and it"s like hunting a baited field.
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First of all, I am crazy about hispanic chics. So beautiful. They intimidate me like crazy. I have a real hard time talking to them.
Now, I am telling this story because if the girl I am about to tell you about wasnt a stripper, i would believe she had real interest, but because she is a stripper, I dont know.
Anyways, she is insane beautiful and not trashy at all. She goes to college and does not do drugs. I talked to her a lot that night. She was the one I bought the lap dance from and was telling me I could touch and I told her I was ok. She would make her rounds to her regulars, but after landing a few bucks and a couple of drinks she would come sit at my table. One of the times she was at my table, i joked that she looks like the type who loves cheesecake. She smiled big and said she loved it. Asked her if she wanted to go get some in a couple of weeks once I am established and comfortable at my new job. She said "As friends?" and I was like "Just friends." I really did not think much about it after that. I didnt even tell her bye when I left. She is really and truly way out of my league.......
My sister is at work tonight. She texted me saying that Foxy (her stage name) was asking how I was and if I was going to be coming up there sometime soon. She also asked if I still planned on taking her out for cheese cake....
Is she fishing for a regular or is this a little bit of interest? I really do not know.
Now, I am telling this story because if the girl I am about to tell you about wasnt a stripper, i would believe she had real interest, but because she is a stripper, I dont know.
Anyways, she is insane beautiful and not trashy at all. She goes to college and does not do drugs. I talked to her a lot that night. She was the one I bought the lap dance from and was telling me I could touch and I told her I was ok. She would make her rounds to her regulars, but after landing a few bucks and a couple of drinks she would come sit at my table. One of the times she was at my table, i joked that she looks like the type who loves cheesecake. She smiled big and said she loved it. Asked her if she wanted to go get some in a couple of weeks once I am established and comfortable at my new job. She said "As friends?" and I was like "Just friends." I really did not think much about it after that. I didnt even tell her bye when I left. She is really and truly way out of my league.......
My sister is at work tonight. She texted me saying that Foxy (her stage name) was asking how I was and if I was going to be coming up there sometime soon. She also asked if I still planned on taking her out for cheese cake....
Is she fishing for a regular or is this a little bit of interest? I really do not know.
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Guys:
So, me and the gf both feel that v-day is a big commercial thing, so we"re kinda just going to exchange letters saying how we feel. My brain is not made to be introspective and to compose beautiful prose. I would really appreciate some help with this:
(Please don"t laugh or insult, etc.)
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Girlfriend,
I really wish it were easier to tell you all of the wonderful things I think of you. I love that you are always supportive of me and you never make me feel embarrassed to share my feelings with you. I appreciate that you never make me worry or question things. I adore your smile and your devious eyes and I still get butterflies in my stomach every time that I see you. You truly brighten my dark days. I sincerely admire you as a woman, a mother, and a lover. Thank you for giving me the chance to love you a whole life long.
You have saved my life in so many ways.
Thank you for being you,
Aychamo
So, me and the gf both feel that v-day is a big commercial thing, so we"re kinda just going to exchange letters saying how we feel. My brain is not made to be introspective and to compose beautiful prose. I would really appreciate some help with this:
(Please don"t laugh or insult, etc.)
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Girlfriend,
I really wish it were easier to tell you all of the wonderful things I think of you. I love that you are always supportive of me and you never make me feel embarrassed to share my feelings with you. I appreciate that you never make me worry or question things. I adore your smile and your devious eyes and I still get butterflies in my stomach every time that I see you. You truly brighten my dark days. I sincerely admire you as a woman, a mother, and a lover. Thank you for giving me the chance to love you a whole life long.
You have saved my life in so many ways.
Thank you for being you,
Aychamo
If you know whats good for you and your relationship, you better spend $500+ on a gift for her.aychamo_aycono said:
There"s nothing wrong with a genuine, heartfelt display of emotions posted by a guy famous for his chocolate starfish and stealth-porn on a rude and jaded messageboard full of perverted gamers.