Girls who broke your heart thread

aychamo_aycono said:

Agree. You ever been to a trailer park??

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Eomer would like a word with you.

Most recent Ex has been spamming my inbox with notes that she wants to roll with me this weekend and nude pictures. Have to figure out a good way to get some E and not end of sleeping with her...

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I don"t see how that can possibly end well. You"ll probably end up getting all deep and meaningful and cuddly, possibly sleeping together (if you aren"t one of those dudes who suffers pilldick). In fact I imagine she"s counting it, this sounds like a calculated move to reel you back in a restart the relationship. Nothing like a nice big dose of MDMA to create fake emotional closeness and induce action people will regret when sober.

Fuck that, if a girl is drunk and fucks a dude she regrets, thats her problem. Unless the chick got roofied or is pretty much passed out, she knows what she is doing and shouldnt be able to claim rape.

Azrayne said:

I don"t see how that can possibly end well. You"ll probably end up getting all deep and meaningful and cuddly, possibly sleeping together (if you aren"t one of those dudes who suffers pilldick). In fact I imagine she"s counting it, this sounds like a calculated move to reel you back in a restart the relationship. Nothing like a nice big dose of MDMA to create fake emotional closeness and induce action people will regret when sober.

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Yeah, I can"t see how MDMA with an ex-girlfriend could end well. It"s one of those drugs that you either do with a significant other in a small group situation, or a massive anonymous party. I"m too old for either one at this point. MDMA falls squarely into the category of drugs that I did in college but would need extraordinary circumstances to do again. Like, coke orgy with jessica alba extraordinary.

Yeah I think it"s like that for most people. You try it, have a blast, keep using it for a few months, a year or two, then get over it and move on.

I can"t see myself ever using it again, but I had some amazing times on it.

Tripamang said:

London?

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Never noticed your reply before. Yeah, London.

I stopped using the line a while ago. It wasn"t very well received and on POF it"s the same people day after day on there.

Azrayne said:

I don"t see how that can possibly end well. You"ll probably end up getting all deep and meaningful and cuddly, possibly sleeping together (if you aren"t one of those dudes who suffers pilldick). In fact I imagine she"s counting it, this sounds like a calculated move to reel you back in a restart the relationship. Nothing like a nice big dose of MDMA to create fake emotional closeness and induce action people will regret when sober.

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Yeah, Im not at my best when it comes to E and control either. Will probably just call the whole thing off. Hopefully she"ll stop writing poems about how much she loves me on her myspace soon.

Uh yeah, she"s definately trying to get back in with you :| She"s obviously betting on the fact that you"ll be too messed up to refuse when she comes onto you and will try manipulate you back into getting together with her.

I"m the same way, I just completely lose control once I come up, so much it"s almost scary, everything just blurs and I feel like a whole other person. I mean it"s fun, but at the same time, I got sick of doing dumb shit and having to deal with the consequances when I came down.

fuck my life

just criss-crossed texts (Stupid iPhone) and sent one to my buddy that I intended for ze girl, and one for my girl to the buddy. Obviously, we were talking about her at both times so I didn"t notice until they both texted back "wtf?"

Had texts go wrong one too many times.

Can"t remember exactly what I accidentally sent to the girl, but it was basically conveying the desire to fuck her. After 5 panicked seconds of thinking I sent a second one with, "haha!"

I did not get to fuck her...

Any tips on dating an older woman? I"m 23, she"s 27. Never dated someone that much older than me...

Incognitogamer said:

Any tips on dating an older woman? I"m 23, she"s 27. Never dated someone that much older than me...

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At that age, just not acting like a tool should be plenty enough.
And watch out, when they get close to 30 their inner clock goes batshit insane... kids + SUV + dog + all that shit.

Need more details for better advice.

Ok, Stephanie is out of the question. We hang out far and few between for there to be anything (even just fuck buddies), but she is still cool to hang out with.

RedHead is just friend material. She is a lot like me, which is not bad, but really just makes her feel like a buddy. I wont ask her for head anymore, but if she offers, i wont turn it away.

Redhead"s friend (Bookie) started talking to me last night. Nothing major. Just getting the usual beginner questions out of the way.

Today, i did my usual marketing. Visited one of the complexes I goto (was just taking them Donuts to be friendly), but met a woman I had never seen there. "LeaseLee" informs me she pretty much works all the time and has no idea how she did not meet me. I flirted with her a bit and she discusses with me that she would like the service I offer. I told her I needed to go get my presentation items since I was not expecting to do that today. Returned about an hour later and she was busy. I left and came back about 30 minutes later and she was free. She said "So, you decided to come back?" and I said "Yeah, but a part of me didnt want to since you blew me off earlier." and she said "But I was busy working!" and i responded "That was work? Oh, I am sorry, I couldnt tell." We joked for a bit longer and she wrote down some notes. She had that real bubbly looking girly handwriting, so when she said she would get stuff together and fax to me, I told her I would rather come pick it up that I couldnt read her bubble print and especially couldnt read it if she faxed it. She got a sad face and i said "sorry. ill be back later this week to work with you on this"

After I left, i started thinking I might have been a little brutal on her, so I called her up (she needed my fax number anyways) and I said "I think I owe you an apology." and she asked "What for?" "For being so brutal on you earlier. I think it was because I was a little intimidated by you." and she laughed and said "What for?" and I said "because, youre a pretty lady, the kind I would usually ask to dinner and it was difficult to keep my mind on business only" and she laughed and said "Oh no, we are gunna have to talk about this" and i said "No, cause then you will run and go tell your boyfriend" and she said "I dont have a boyfriend" "And I said, thats good, but too bad I dont have time to talk about it. I will get back to you later when i do have time. See you later".

So yeah, we will see how Bookie and LeaseLee will go.

Brad2770 said:

Today, i did my usual marketing. Visited one of the complexes I goto (was just taking them Donuts to be friendly), but met a woman I had never seen there. "LeaseLee" informs me she pretty much works all the time and has no idea how she did not meet me. I flirted with her a bit and she discusses with me that she would like the service I offer. I told her I needed to go get my presentation items since I was not expecting to do that today. Returned about an hour later and she was busy. I left and came back about 30 minutes later and she was free. She said "So, you decided to come back?" and I said "Yeah, but a part of me didnt want to since you blew me off earlier." and she said "But I was busy working!" and i responded "That was work? Oh, I am sorry, I couldnt tell." We joked for a bit longer and she wrote down some notes. She had that real bubbly looking girly handwriting, so when she said she would get stuff together and fax to me, I told her I would rather come pick it up that I couldnt read her bubble print and especially couldnt read it if she faxed it. She got a sad face and i said "sorry. ill be back later this week to work with you on this"

After I left, i started thinking I might have been a little brutal on her, so I called her up (she needed my fax number anyways) and I said "I think I owe you an apology." and she asked "What for?" "For being so brutal on you earlier. I think it was because I was a little intimidated by you." and she laughed and said "What for?" and I said "because, youre a pretty lady, the kind I would usually ask to dinner and it was difficult to keep my mind on business only" and she laughed and said "Oh no, we are gunna have to talk about this" and i said "No, cause then you will run and go tell your boyfriend" and she said "I dont have a boyfriend" "And I said, thats good, but too bad I dont have time to talk about it. I will get back to you later when i do have time. See you later".

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That was painful to even read. I"m sorry but WTF.

It"s almost like Brad lives in a world of bad softcore porn plots that tend to fizzle out.

Was more painful to write.

I just want to be as good as you guys. it"s my life ambition to be accepted by the FoH community.

Unless she brings up something specific that you need to apologize for, never apologize. It looks and sounds weak. If you fuck up just joke about it the next time it comes up.