What shoe exactly? That suddenly she"ll do a 180 and turn crazy or something?
She"s said some goofy things from time to time, but mostly because I think she has next to no inner monologue. I came out of my bathroom just after we had sex, and she was looking at the dressers in my room. For those who have seen pics of my place, it"s pretty much a bachelor"s pad and I don"t have a closet, just a couple dressers and then an Ikea type closet. She remarks something along the lines of "so it"s pretty much impossible for two people to live here hey?"
I laughed and said "wow, already angling to move in hey?" Right away she started back tracking and said that wasn"t what she meant, but that she was just thinking aloud and so on. She"s been saving up to buy her own place (lives with dad and step mom atm), and from past conversations with her I took her word for it. She just blurts out stupid shit from time to time, and I find it endearing.
Another example was a couple nights ago we were at my place and deciding where to go grab something to eat, as there"s probably 20 places within a 5 minute walk. I suggest a place called Japanese Village that opened a few months ago that I hadn"t been to. She immediately starts to say "Oh, well what kind of foooo..... god I"m retarded" while I laughed my ass off. She"s not actually stupid, just doesn"t filter things before they come out of her mouth.
But yeah, I do have some apprehensiveness that she won"t turn out as great as I think she is, but that diminishes with each time we hang out.