Girls who broke your heart thread

Dabamf said:

Well done tarrant. Ballsy move on the canceling chick but it worked and now she"s in the palm of your hand.

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Lets hope, I"ve never done anything like that before. Yesterday I texted her, asked how she was feeling, she said not so hot, we texted for a bit then she asked if I had any IM"s, I gave her my yahoo and chatted with her for a few on there, told her I had to go. (girl was coming over)

Nodrama-ex came over, we watched some football, I told her I had a Fantasy Basketball draft to deal with in the early evening, she said that was fine. We hung out, we teamed up together in the kitchen and made dinner. (I love cooking and she knows it something I enjoy doing with her) It was a nice evening all in all I think she wanted to bring up "us" but she backed out of it a few times. She asked me if I was seeing anyone else, If I thought this time was any different then last time.

I told her I wasn"t tied down to anyone else I wouldn"t have had her over, (I dropped that subject quickly) and that I really liked the fact that even though we had busy schedules that we were both able to balance things out and it"s a shame it didn"t happen sooner. She seemed content with those answers so I let it go. I think that conversation is going to come up soon though so I need to figure out whats going on with everything else before I figure out which I"m the most compatible with.

After she left I hopped on the computer and the girl who canceled on my IM"ed me strait away asking if I had a nice afternoon/evening. We chatted a bit, she seems to be the one coming to me more often then not so that"s a nice change of pace. It still blows my mind how that"s turning out so far.

Anyways, now begins the long work week, doubtful I"ll see any of them till the weekend.

Has potential to blow the fuck up in your face Brad, but you"ve come a long way since a year ago. Just take it easy with her, I"m more so worried about her then you at this point, she"s 19, that has all kinda of possible disaster written all over it depending on where she is at in her maturity.

Be careful would be my advice I guess.

I kinda agree with Tenks, but we all know he"s going to do it so like I said, my advice would be just be careful man.

I"m thinking of shooting the girl who canceled on me a text to see how she"s feeling, but I did that yesterday...I"m thinking I"ll let the next batch of communications be started by her, kinda play it off and let her come to me kinda thing, it seemed to work well so far.

I"m to caring, I really do want to see if she"s feeling better, blah, acting like you don"t care can suck. lol

yea another reason why i"m not going to text her.

Yeah if current trends hold out I expect something from her tonight or tomorrow, by the chance she doesn"t I"ll hit her up Wed like you said.

yeah the more I like them the harder it is to not call. The only girl I"ve had problems with not calling or texting was my recent ex. The moment I forced myself (and it was really fucking hard) to not talk to her until she talked to me resulted in 3 weeks of silence between us with her finally breaking and asking me out to dinner. (this was awhile ago)

I know it works...it"s just hard sometimes.

I think its kinda working double with this girl because like I said, shes easily a 9 maybe a 10 by far the most physically attractive woman I"ve ever gone after and seemingly had a shot with and I by all accounts an not a good looking guy. I mean I"m not hideous by any means, but I"m realistic. I"m balding and I"m a heavier guy. (not obese, but I could deff. stand to shed some pounds)

I think she didn"t expect this out of me and honestly, it makes two of us. Not sure if that"s part of whats going on or if there"s a secret fucked up/crazy side to her thats waiting to explode drama all over me.

Either way, it"s been a pretty cool experience so far.

Holy shit Brad kissed someone on his own accord.

And Tenks...fucked up side would suck...crazy side would be awesome.