Broke up with the gf on Saturday. She showed no emotion whatsoever other than the tension I could read on her face. She"s always been prideful and I didn"t expect her to weep at my feet but I was kinda expecting a more honest reaction. Hell, she started to cry a little one day weeks ago when I referenced moving back home, yet now refused to show any emotion whatsoever. She said less than like 10 words the whole convo and if I didn"t see such tension on her face I"da mistakenly thought she flat out didn"t give a fuck.
Anyway, that"s done with. So, I"m back. There is another Korean girl I met back on Halloween that spoke fluent English and was rather cute. She"s less objectively pretty then the recent ex who was pretty damn attractive I must say, but she"s kinda got that quirky cute thing goin on. Anyway, that night she was letting on major signs of interest but I didn"t act on it. Still, I got her number along with 2 american girls, one of whom was her friend, just on sort of a friends basis. I made sure to text later the next day somethin simple saying nice to meet you, just to get myself in her phone for later just in case.
So I texted her again for the first time like 2-3 weeks ago about something irrelevant, and twice again up till a week ago. I always kept it random and my responses pretty hot and cold. I had no plan or agenda, I was just sorta bein friendly and didn"t wanna push it while having a girlfriend.
Last week after I decided I was gonna break it off with DG I stepped it up a little and have been doing some qualifying with decent results. But now I"m in a position I"m not quite used to. I didn"t talk to her that much in person and since I was in a relationship I couldn"t quite create any tension or show possible interest. So now I"m sorta creating the tension and the interest outa no where. That went ok with the qualifying and I intend to do more, but it"s sorta awkward. Like from her eyes I met her, wasn"t interested, then 6 weeks later suddenly I am?
I have one question though. I plan on picking up the qualification a little more heavy duty tomorrow and then maybe phone call the next day or after that. OR I could invite her for a casual meal while I"m in the city sometime this week to pick up a book. What I"m unsure of is mostly that I"m going on a 2 week trip starting Saturday. If we go out this week, that"s 2 1/2-3 weeks till date #2. The memory or interest built will likely fade. On the other hand, here I am texting her again and building interest, and afterwards we wait 2 weeks to start it up again.
I"m leaning towards suggesting a date early Tuesday for Wednesday, just a casual "I"m heading through Seoul for the night to pick up a book, how about meeting me for a bite?" Should I go for the date before my trip or wait till after and basically reset the work I built up?