Uhh, need more info really. But, basically, you are gonna need some balls and make all the moves until she says no, and even then don"t let that phase you. I"m not talking just sexually, make the decisions for both of you and be confident in them. I.e. "Hey, gonna go grab us some drinks, what do you want?" If she hesitates, ask if she has a liquor she prefers.. prod her for information until you come to a decision for her that she agrees to. If she"s not a big drinker, tell her you"ve got something you"ll think she"ll like, then straight up tell the bartender what"s up and to make something sweet/weak (assuming you don"t already know a good drink to bring her).Needless said:requesting tactics on getting closer to a female whom is more or less socially inept, I know theres interest. she just seems to have trouble showing it, much like myself.
Notes taken kind sir, I"m still in the process of kind of diagnosing the situation between the two of us. I apologize for keeping this short/lack of details but I suppose I"m not very expressive anymore. I kind of expected this answer though, I knew I had to take charge of everything; I suppose i"ll take action then in oppose to waiting around wondering things.Zinke said:Uhh, need more info really. But, basically, you are gonna need some balls and make all the moves until she says no, and even then don"t let that phase you. I"m not talking just sexually, make the decisions for both of you and be confident in them. I.e. "Hey, gonna go grab us some drinks, what do you want?" If she hesitates, ask if she has a liquor she prefers.. prod her for information until you come to a decision for her that she agrees to. If she"s not a big drinker, tell her you"ve got something you"ll think she"ll like, then straight up tell the bartender what"s up and to make something sweet/weak (assuming you don"t already know a good drink to bring her).
Or "Let"s go to this restaurant.. no? ok, then let"s goto this one" etc.. If the decision ends up sucking, make fun of the fact that it sucked. "wow, this restaurant sucks doesn"t it? My bad.. You got a favorite place to eat? No, well let"s try restaurant X next time, cool?" If the situation sucks, make it about BOTH of you against the shitty situation, rather then it being YOUR fault that is sucks. Make fun of how bad it sucked. Replace restaurant with movie/bar/activity of your choice. I had a date once where we saw a movie that neither of us liked, walked out on in the middle and laughed at how bad it was the rest of the night.
If she"s socially inept, and has trouble showing interest, it sounds like she"s shy and wants a guy who takes charge a bit. She"ll appreciate the fact that you are into her and making an effort. You"ll have to push her for what she wants/likes, but she"ll appreciate when you do. But, ALWAYS do it in a joking manner. If you aren"t funny, just smile when you ask her questions, that generally works enough to convey you are being playful, which will put her at ease.
Also, you"d be surprised what kind of shit you can say without offending her when you follow it up with "I"m just kidding" and a smile. I"ve outright said "So, if I buy you a drink, can I get head later and then never call you? I"m just kidding!" and she both said "yea, of course" and found it hilarious. I wouldn"t advise saying THAT, you"d have to be aware of the situation to pull off something like that, but the principle still stands. When in doubt, infer that you are joking. If she is going to respond positively to the question, she still will, if not, she"ll just assume you are joking around. It"s like a fucking get out of jail free card when you get it down right.
This thread is the shame of screenshots, in my opinion.Gryeyes said:This thread is hilarious.
I saw the signal in the sky and came as quick as I could....Grooverider said:This thread is the shame of screenshots, in my opinion.
Wrong, however the authorities typically get involved after you have done so.Zyth said:True. But you also don"t magically make a bitter bitch of an ex stop being such a cunt and give up the one power move she has left over you.
I"m quoting this, just cause I liked the comment so much. Carry on.Zyth said:True. But you also don"t magically make a bitter bitch of an ex stop being such a cunt and give up the one power move she has left over you.
It doesn"t mean a thing, don"t pursue it. Shit like that happens to everyone during the holidays. I think it"s just one of those unfortunate actions that come about when you mix holiday cheer/loneliness with alcohol. You did the right thing by responding, but now you have to forget about it.Eomer said:I dunno, does that mean anything at all?
That"s a keeper, my friend.Eomer said:I was ho-hum on her until halfway through the hockey game (of course) when the Flames got the lead, an old dude in a Fleury jersey in front of us turned around and yelled "yeaaaaah! Who"s got the lead now?!" and she responded "YYYYEAAAAAHHHH! WHO"S GONNA DIE FIRST??!?" I nearly fell out of my chair.
Eomer said:I was ho-hum on her until halfway t...unny though, I would have laughed my ass off.
She kept calling you Mark all night?Eomer said:Another question, does it mean much when a girl says your name a lot? I dunno, I hardly ever use a date"s name because it"s frequently redundant. I don"t need to say "Goodnight Jen" when I can just say "goodnight". But a girl I went with on a date last night seemed like she said my name every time she said something, and most of her messages/texts include it as well. I know overanalyzing and all that, but I"m curious what people"s opinions are.
According to this book.Another question, does it mean much when a girl says your name a lot? I dunno, I hardly ever use a date"s name because it"s frequently redundant. I don"t need to say "Goodnight Jen" when I can just say "goodnight". But a girl I went with on a date last night seemed like she said my name every time she said something, and most of her messages/texts include it as well. I know overanalyzing and all that, but I"m curious what people"s opinions are.