Yeah, but is he married and happy? Because, uh, if he"s not, then... he"s failing at his own game.
I think that"s the point of his game,
it"s a game. He"s not out looking for love, he"s looking to get his junk wet. While his "techniques" (for lack of better wording) are beneficial to newbies, virgins, basement dwellers, shy people, etc. I don"t think it"s a how-to for finding love as much as it is a how-to for finding the confidence to approach and bed girls at bars.
For the record, I have no intention of ever enabling something like that.
I didn"t think you would have those intentions. Sorry if I came off rude, it wasn"t my intention.
On the flip side, there are people independent enough that they are truly happy alone. They may find their companionship through friends or other means and if so fuck it, more power to them. Everyone has a right to be happy.
Makes sense. Every person is different, though, so really in this pseudo-debate, no-one is really right when it"s a matter of feelings over facts. It took me being happy with someone to realize I could be happy with myself (because I was given the chance to learn, grow, and all of that silly shit to realize who I even was and wanted to be). I"m kind of backwards and retarded, though.
Hit it directly on the head. People that flaunt their relationships are ultimately not happy with themselves. People who are content with who they are do not need to go around talking about how great their significant other is because they"re genuinely happy people.
I"ve met those people and while I will sometimes brag on the man, it"s not really flaunting my relationship as much as it is me being proud of him. So I don"t think I apply there. If I"m asked for advice, I usually give it based off of personal experiences and/or mistakes I"ve made in my relationship(s). I"ve seen the people who brag so much you feel like they"re trying to convince you (and themselves) something is so perfect that you end up convinced it"s probably the opposite. There"s a difference between being proud and being annoying, trying to find the balance and appropriate times to boast your significant others" awesomeness is key.
I cannot see anyone saying "let"s just have fun" in any sincere or meaningful way that would make a girl feel appreciated and respected. it"s just not my style.
Right. Regardless of the tone used, your average woman would hear that as; "Look, I"d like to just sleep with you right now but not get too serious in the event something better comes along." Your intentions could be the opposite, but remember, females are sensitive, they over-analyze, second guess, etc. That"s a dangerous line right there!
Ultimately you may not be interested in the guy romantically for all the reasons you say, but to say or imply he would fail at getting your emotions pumping is silly.
If repulsion counts as an emotion, sure! Hey, we don"t have to agree on everything. I forgot how old you are, but maybe it"s just my old hag POV that clashes with the views of you young lads.
