I met a girl recently, at her place of work. I actually started up a conversation, and she gave me her number. She had to go out of town a few times, but texted me a lot and sent me some very nice pics. We would do lunch, or hang out for a bit on days she didn"t work (opposite schedules). She had some interesting photos of a snowmobile, a custom painted quad (raptor or something) and she drove a BMW X5. She said her dad bought it for her 21st birthday a year ago. My friends said "Who did she divorce to get all that stuff?". It was seemingly fine, but in the back of my mind something was missing. She didn"t seem completely emotionally available, but it wasn"t something I could put my finger on.
So last week she comes over before work, and we fuck like 2 wild animals. She tells me she is busy this weekend due to blah blah blah (something about work, but it isn"t relevant). So we plan on seeing each other on Monday, probably more hot sexin etc. Last night I was hanging out with my brother, having a few beers, and I get this call from a random number. It"s 2245 or so, and I"m interested in who it could be, so I pick up the phone.
Immediately this woman starts into me "how do you know Ashley?!" and proceeds to grill me. Turns out it was her mother, and she had her phone bill and noticed I was the guy she was texting and calling a lot. I still can"t figure out why the fuck this crazy bitch cares, until she drops the bomb. "Did she tell you she was married?!". She was apparently sitting there with the husband. She says "they"ve been having marriage problems". She tells me if I am a gentleman I will not text or call her anymore from this point on (which I"m about to ignore).
I text Ashley and casually mention how it sucks she is married. She replies "I am?" and I wait. This girl usually takes 10 minutes between texts, but she starts blowing up my phone. "Who told you that?" followed by "or just ignore me." So she says "Did whoever ratted me out also tell you that I am in the middle of a divorce?".
I don"t want to play out every single text between us, but she apologized for not telling me, and said she really likes me. She said she was scared to tell me. I think back now to some of the instances in which it should have been obvious, but what can I say.
I like this girl, a lot, but in the back of my mind I question how I can ever trust someone who would lie to me. I was really busy the last 2 weeks, but as I started getting more time, I would have put it together. She wants to talk to me today, but I"m wondering what she will have to say. I don"t care if she was going through a divorce; the fact she hid it from me completely ruins everything. On the flip side, maybe she isn"t getting a divorce, and she has just started having affairs on her husband. Logic dictates that I walk away because she is a liar, but I don"t often give people the benefit of the doubt, so maybe I should talk to her with an open mind.
