The Ancient said:
Some people just run late to everything, it"s not necessarily a sign of disrespect.
It is. Prolly makes them stupid, too. I mean, if you already know, you are going to be late and DO NOT WANT TO... you can easily get ready earlier AND aim to be there half an hour early.
What makes it a sign of disrespect and/or stupidity is that they clearly dont want to change it.
TheCutlery said:
It"s my personal policy. I like my women to have standards. If they"d do me, they clearly don"t.
It is funny. Problem I have with your posts is, that I respect you for your strong opinions, yet disagree the mostly useless content when it isnt funny. I think I like you as a person, but dislike your postings.
FoghornDeadhorn said:
Well I can"t say I"m an expert. I put out notoriously difficult to translate signals. But if a girl wants to flirt with me she can just come up and start interacting; it"s not rocket science. Talk to me. But then, I"m one of those weird guys that wants women he can hold intelligent conversations with. Ideally in a hot package. Yep, then you"ve got my interest.
Any disagreement? Guys, need more than conversation from a female? It"s OK for her to ask you to dance or for your phone number or something, right? I"m also pretty passive on this front, so this is an interesting subject to me.
I suggest reading a PUA book like Revelations (the only one worth reading, as it is more about what you want in your life than getting girls) to answer your question.
Making the conversation interesting is your job, not hers. Doing this is a skill like any other. Personally I think just going up to someone and start a conversation is rather lame and too direct. Find a reason to stand nearby and drop a short comment that makes her want to reply. Go from there. See a nice girl on a bus stop? "Pretty cold these days, isnt it?" Stuff like that also helps if you are a passive person, as it will not come off as fake.
Once you are in the conversation, you need to stir it towards a conversation you desire, not hope she starts a good topic on her own. And dont expect a drunken slut you want to bone to sound intelligent in a club, even if she is smart. As long as you keep the conversation interesting AND control where it goes... its in your hand if its good or not. And if she is not on your level at all, feel free to drop her.
Also as long as you dont have the aura of Saidin, you prolly dont get many girls walk up to you and start a conversation because you look all cool standing around over there. You need to start the conversation, yet make it casual like you didnt intend to, but enjoy her company more then whatever else you were doing a moment ago.
