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I was only there a couple of nights Dude, the girls in Champaign are smoking hot and easy to talk to.Mcpickle Deluxe said:
Girls who broke your heart thread
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Isn"t Tad the guy obsessed with anthropomorphic beaver disciples in Vanguard? How can he run a dating service too?
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Lol. False dichotomy.Snugglebear said:
You"re confusing something I said was necessary with what I think is sufficient. For most guys, it is a necessary but not a sufficient condition to get girls that they dress reasonably well when going out, that they have decent cars (not in NYC of course), that they have decent jobs. Of course they still need confidence.Tenks said:
Now some guys with jack and shit but 100% confidence do still get girls -- but I"ll bet $50.00 that most of the shit they tell the girls to get them into the sack are lies. And I"m gonna bet that relationship usually doesn"t last longer than one night. That"s not a relationship I want.
There is no single thing that works on every girl. The reality is that everyone is different, and different people respond to different things. The ability to quickly and correctly analyze a person goes a really long way.
Knowing what the girl wants is the key to being successful and most girls will let you know what type of person they are either directly or indirectly if you know how to talk to them.
The best book isThe Art of Seductionby Robert Greene. The book breaks down the different types of seducers and victim types, then finishes it off with a bunch of "laws" from start to finish. It"s been out for a while but it is still by far the best book around. Buy it, read it, thank me later. The craziest part about the book is that it describes everything in detail and not just how to do it, but why it works and why people respond to it the way that they do. You"ll actually learn a bit about yourself by reading it.
In any case, the type that most of you are describing is known as the charismatic which, in the very basic sense, has to do with exuding self-confidence. It doesn"t work on everyone though and there are some people that will resent you for your confidence, especially if they are insecure. That"s why it is best to know what type of person you are dealing with and act accordingly.
Knowing what the girl wants is the key to being successful and most girls will let you know what type of person they are either directly or indirectly if you know how to talk to them.
The best book isThe Art of Seductionby Robert Greene. The book breaks down the different types of seducers and victim types, then finishes it off with a bunch of "laws" from start to finish. It"s been out for a while but it is still by far the best book around. Buy it, read it, thank me later. The craziest part about the book is that it describes everything in detail and not just how to do it, but why it works and why people respond to it the way that they do. You"ll actually learn a bit about yourself by reading it.
In any case, the type that most of you are describing is known as the charismatic which, in the very basic sense, has to do with exuding self-confidence. It doesn"t work on everyone though and there are some people that will resent you for your confidence, especially if they are insecure. That"s why it is best to know what type of person you are dealing with and act accordingly.
God damn it must have been a ton of chick"s new year"s resolution to find a relationship. My POF & Match emails have been getting slammed recently. I think since Saturday I"ve had 6 new emails from girls who I didn"t even contact first. This one girl even sent me back a 2,500 word (yes I used winword to count it) email explaining how similar we are. This other girl on POF sent me an IM yesterday and we talked for like 15 minutes there then moved over to AIM for another 30 or so. Its been kind of insane since the new year so if you man-sluts are looking to jump on POF now maybe the time.
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So yeah, haven"t seen her since I dropped her off at home on Saturday, but spoke with her last night and a bit Monday. She "did what she had to" and barring any miracles, I should not be a father in 9 months. Praise be unto baby jesus, so long as he"s not trying to immaculately conceive his way in to my life. She seemed to be in a pretty good mood last night, and she"s supposed to come over to my place tomorrow and make me dinner. It started as going out for dinner, but then I was like "well how about we stay in instead and make something for dinner. Wait, maybe I should just leave that to you." She said she"s a bit nervous because she feels like it"s a test. I assured her it was not, but if she decides to cook anything other than a large steak with prawns, she will have failed.
As far as flowers go, is it ever too soon to give them to a girl? Debating picking up some prior to her coming over Thursday.
So yeah, haven"t seen her since I dropped her off at home on Saturday, but spoke with her last night and a bit Monday. She "did what she had to" and barring any miracles, I should not be a father in 9 months. Praise be unto baby jesus, so long as he"s not trying to immaculately conceive his way in to my life. She seemed to be in a pretty good mood last night, and she"s supposed to come over to my place tomorrow and make me dinner. It started as going out for dinner, but then I was like "well how about we stay in instead and make something for dinner. Wait, maybe I should just leave that to you." She said she"s a bit nervous because she feels like it"s a test. I assured her it was not, but if she decides to cook anything other than a large steak with prawns, she will have failed.
As far as flowers go, is it ever too soon to give them to a girl? Debating picking up some prior to her coming over Thursday.
I am not the expert on these matters many on these boards claim to be, but I believe it is never too early to express an honest sentiment of appreciation.
Flowers, her favorite bottle of wine and some clean sheets would set a perfect tone to the evening imo.
Flowers, her favorite bottle of wine and some clean sheets would set a perfect tone to the evening imo.
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You just had a baby scare, I would assume unless shes been through it 100x before, she probably wouldnt want to open her legs unless she had the whole bottle of wine. As for the flowers/wine, only you can be the judge of that, you can tell by her choice of words in texts or phone conversations etc. You dont have to get roses eitehr, can just get some other type of flower or some non red roses, so it doesnt mean to serious but its a "kind" jesture..
Perhaps she should cook the dinner and you could surprise her with maybe some desert and a scary movie? I mean how stereotypical can this night be but hey why not. Girls are girls, if you act real about it then who cares if its been done 100x b4
Maybe you should just enjoy the night, enjoy the bottle and see if she makes a move, I"d be worried if she thought I was creepo trying to bang her if I made a move after the first fuck up (and the first time hanging out after). Kinda tells the girl like wow he doesnt care that we almost got pregnant, hes right back at it again?
Perhaps she should cook the dinner and you could surprise her with maybe some desert and a scary movie? I mean how stereotypical can this night be but hey why not. Girls are girls, if you act real about it then who cares if its been done 100x b4
Maybe you should just enjoy the night, enjoy the bottle and see if she makes a move, I"d be worried if she thought I was creepo trying to bang her if I made a move after the first fuck up (and the first time hanging out after). Kinda tells the girl like wow he doesnt care that we almost got pregnant, hes right back at it again?
An ex of mine had relatively short periods (i.e. lasting around 3 days), so one time we had sex without a condom around 5 days after she originally started having her period (I pulled out). Now I know my biology well enough to know that statistically speaking the chance of her getting pregnant due to unprotected sex at this stage in the menstrual cycle is about as low as perfect use with a condom! However, I was her first sexual partner and she was relatively inexperienced in such matters. So she starts stressing out about it and it and it ended up fucking with her cycle, so after 4 weeks she"d start calling me every day saying she still hadn"t had her period yet, two weeks later she finally had her period. But man those 2 weeks she drove me fucking crazy and I pretty much had to get out of the relationship asap!lost said:
In .au lillies are a death flower, at least the white ones are. Calla-lillies are pretty similiar, sortof a smaller, cuter version and can come in a good range of colours if you can get a hold of them. My wife used a bunch of them in her bouquet for our wedding recently and all the girls loved them.Eomer said:
i would probably just ask the saleswomen which flowers would be appropriate and pick from those.