Girls who broke your heart thread

Eyashusa said:

Shit just got real!

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he"s still a faggot

Brad2770 said:

Eomer, some of the things you say you do seem a little creepy, but its cool because I know how you feel.

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What specifically was creepy? That one email which I talk about below? Yeah, big mistake. Otherwise though...

Tenks said:

STOP SAYING CHUCK WAS "BATSHIT CRAZY."

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whoa whoa whoa, I only meant that in reference to the single night where she did in fact go crazy. I didn"t mean it in general. Overall she was a pretty cool chick. Just that one particular evening she was all over the fucking place man. One second horny as hell wanting to fuck, next second telling me things weren"t working, next crying that she hated her job with Coors, next saying that she really likes me and wants to keep seeing me, next that I shouldn"t want anything to do with her cause she is a trainwreck, and so on.

But again, I didn"t mean that in a general sense. I know exactly what went wrong, and you"re absolutely right about what I did wrong and I"ll do my best to take that lesson forward. Her going "crazy" that night was a combination of shit going on in her life, and my stupid email.

You then turned into the creepiest human being possible by sending her all these fucking strange emails.

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Again, whoa. I sent that one email. Singular. And you"re absolutely right, that was a colossal mistake and might have singlehandedly sabotaged any chance of things going further. The email I quoted above was simply saying thanks for the good times, cya around, I certainly had no expectations of even receiving a response and was pleasantly surprised I got one.

Mini_Miik said:

he"s still a faggot

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Someone didnt fly you to their house and buy your blow.......

Mini_Miik said:

aychamo_aycono"s a faggot

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still

Eomer said:

Again, whoa. I sent that one email. Singular. And you"re absolutely right, that was a colossal mistake and might have singlehandedly sabotaged any chance of things going further. The email I quoted above was simply saying thanks for the good times, cya around, I certainly had no expectations of even receiving a response and was pleasantly surprised I got one.

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Two. You sent her the creepy "I need closure" facebook message as well. Not that this really mattered at this point since the relationship was already 6feet under.

So anyway in an attempt to unfag this thread up... can"t get my head around someone sucking cock for a woman!

Turns out the black girl I was going to meet a couple of weeks back did nothing for me mentally in person, she had a pretty dumb sounding voice, hot but I am a bit of an idiotist. Was honest with her and told her I couldn"t really see us together as I would get bored really fast and she wouldn"t be able to keep me interested. She seemed alright with that to begin with but she threw a bit of a fit and texted me at some obsene time in the morning that I made her feel like shit (which I probably did but in the gentlest possible terms). However, 5 days later she texted me that she was horny and wanted to have sex with me. I would have but I had flu and so some other guy got the booty. (although she might have wanted to give me the AIDS lawl)

So next I met up with the girl that had the cute face but didn"t really have any full body pics. As expected she had a few extra pounds on her but not quite "man the harpoons", those "F" sized bewbs were awesome though. She is pretty cool personality wise, we hit it off a bit and made out for a while on a couch in a bar on the first date. I"m going to go along for the ride for now and maybe cheekily get her to join me at the gym a bit

Aychamo said:

Regarding Chuck, yeah I think she had a lot of mental problems, but you did mess up too. Oh well, whatever. As long as you learned something it was worth it.

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Again though, I don"t think she had mental problems. I just think that one evening she went a little nuts, and understandably so. I think she"s been burned by guys in the past and is suspicious of them in general now (refresher: one time while chatting about our dating past, she commented that 80% of her boyfriends had screwed her over with one of her friends, and the other 20% had scared her off by going too soon too fast, how prophetic!), and that she doesn"t have much confidence in herself outside of her looks, and that she"s getting a ton of pressure from her family. But I don"t think that means she"s fucked up or has serious problems. It means she was a pretty typical 21 year old figuring out where she wanted to take her life. Or actually, just starting torealize that it was time to figure out her life.If that makes any sense.

If anything, the biggest lesson I learned is to just be confident in myself, that even a stunning girl like her (with or without her issues) could actually find me interesting.

I don"t think she was a good girl for you. I think a great girl should never have you second guessing things. In retrospect, do you think you were crazy about her more for her looks or personality?

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As I said, it is absolutely for the best that things didn"t go any further than they did, because they wouldn"t have worked out eventually anyway. As far as why I liked her, I think it was equal parts looks and personality. She was a really fun girl to hang out with, whether just the two of us or in a social setting. She was easily the most fun girl out of anyone on the bus tour that I met her on, from the first second I talked to her. But I"d be lying to myself if I didn"t admit that I overlooked some of the less attractive aspects of her personality, because of her looks. But hey, that"s the way us dudes operate right?

So, maybe you won"t feel it immediately with Xerxes, but don"t run away yet. Just see how things work, why the heck not? She may end up being the one.

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That"s the way I"m operating. I texted her this morning asking her if she was feeling better, and she replied that yes she was. A couple hours later she declared that she was coming over tonight to see me before I leave for the weekend, as I had told her I didn"t have any plans tonight other than packing.

I hope things develop for the both of us, but we shall see.

Tenks said:

I hate to say "I told you so" but probably 30 pages back or so you were talking about how you could see yourself marrying her or your "future wife" or some shit and I even said then that this was going to happen.

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Sorry, forgot to address this originally. You can go back and look if you"d like, but I"m positive that the marrying thing was a sarcastic, joking comment and not intended to be taken seriously at all. I barely knew her and wouldn"t say that except for in a joking matter.

I have a few more stories of girls who broke my heart (sadly no pics of either one), if you don"t mind.

Number one:
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We were young, probably about to finish school, age 18-19 or so (around 1993/4). Knew her through friends and we started off at the campfire near the lake. How romantic. She was tall, blonde, educated, and had a brilliant outlook on future.
She was one of those girls who want to take it slow. She also was one of those girls who want you to be tested before they have sex with you.
Alright, np, I went to my doc, test got sent in, result came back to my address with regular mail... and my mother opened it.
Yeah that was fun, being asked why you took a HIV test. By your mother.

Anyway, I have it all wrapped up now. Test is OK, friend is having a birthday party, we are both invited, and he tells me he has prepared a room for us to sleep in, so we can both have a drink *nudge nudge* *wink wink*.

We have a pleasant evening with friends, eventually everyone goes to bed, and so do we. Nothing can go wrong now, tonight"s the night. So for warmup I decide to show her my cunnilingus skills. I seem to have really enjoyed it too, and she even more so. She came, and after that she only wanted to cuddle up.

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUck.

She ended the relationship the next weekend, and I never got to sleep with her.



Number 2:
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I met this one through a friend. Must have been 1999. When I first laid my eyes on her, we were driving to pick her up. Turn into her street and there"s someone 50 meters ahead bent over, into the back of her car. She was looking for something, and I told my buddy that "that"s a nice ass there". He replied "that"s the girl we"re picking up for coffee".

Less than a week later I invite her on a motorbike ride (that thing seemed so useful suddenly), and she accepts. We go to the lake, swim a bit, and with probably the cheesiest line in the world ("you have so beautiful eyes") I land her. We make out a bit and decide it"s better to go somewhere private.
So we go to my place, and she immediately sits on the bed and starts sucking me off.

NICE!

The next few months were really great, I liked her parents and they seemed to like me too. She was pretty (long dark hair, slim figure, nice ass) and not stupid either. I worked shifts at the time and she didn"t really seem to have a problem with that either.

A bit later on I got an office job again, and she seemed to really have a problem with THAT instead.
Turns out whenever I was working late or night shifts, she"d hang out with exes of hers. It also surfaced that at the time when she started going out with me, she was still "officially" going with someone else.
And here I was wondering why that guy didn"t seem to like me much.

She probably cheated on me 30 times or so, and to make matters worse our mutual friends all seemed to know... I was the only one dumb enough to not notice.




That"s it from me for now, sadly I can"t contribute to the current discussion much, as I"ve been with the same woman for over 4 years now.
But sometimes I think back to #1 up there and still want to hit me in the face

Anyone with girl problems...

Let"s try solving them before a break up. Let us take the relationship further and tell her how much we love and how far we"re willing to go for her! Tell her that you"ll suck a hot mans cock just to show her that you truly do love her! Tell her how you"d gladly take it up the ass and suffer for her!

/sarcasm off


I don"t mean to rant some more but I find it amazing what people will do for love now a days..

Grobbee"s story reminds me of this clip I saw on Efukt. Apparently the video was from some "I want a black guy to fuck my wife" site, and (unsurprisingly) it shows a woman getting plowed doggystyle by a black guy, while the husband is underneath the woman in the 69 position. The black guy starts to come (Oh, yeah...here I come, man) and he pulls out and comes in the husbands mouth (gah, wtf!). The hilarious part is the husband just takes it - he"s not exactly sucking the black guy off, but nor is he gagging and throwing off his bitch wife. He just lies there with his mouth open while the black guys goes "ohhh, yeahhh...how you like that?"

God bless the internet.

Anyway, I can relate to the problem of trying too hard with relationships and inadvertantly sabotaging them. It"s tough to be cool, despite that often being the best policy; however, I think your best bet is to be yourself. I"m sure you can get more action with strategy or "gaming", but a long term relationship requires both people to be true to their nature.

We"ve moved beyond that. You can keep obsessing over it if you want, but we"ll be helping Eomer secure Xerxes for life.

Zarniwoop said:

Grobbee"s story reminds me of this clip I saw on Efukt. Apparently the video was from some "I want a black guy to fuck my wife" site, and (unsurprisingly) it shows a woman getting plowed doggystyle by a black guy, while the husband is underneath the woman in the 69 position. The black guy starts to come (Oh, yeah...here I come, man) and he pulls out and comes in the husbands mouth (gah, wtf!). The hilarious part is the husband just takes it - he"s not exactly sucking the black guy off, but nor is he gagging and throwing off his bitch wife. He just lies there with his mouth open while the black guys goes "ohhh, yeahhh...how you like that?"

God bless the internet.

Anyway, I can relate to the problem of trying too hard with relationships and inadvertantly sabotaging them. It"s tough to be cool, despite that often being the best policy; however, I think your best bet is to be yourself. I"m sure you can get more action with strategy or "gaming", but a long term relationship requires both people to be true to their nature.

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It"s called "cuckolding". Some men like it, for whatever reason.

Seriously, why is everyone over Grobbees nuts? Who cares if he is gay/bi-sexual/heterosexual? If the mans want to suck a dick, let the man suck a dick, who are we to impose upon someones happiness?

This thread is about girls that broke our hearts, and now girls that suck our peens. Grobbees girl clearly hurt him, why the fuck can"t he vent 100% due to the added benefit of internet anonymity. It takes a lot of balls to admit that kind of stuff with the flamers we have on FoH - but this thread is about letting people find solace.

I only meant half of the puns.

I have been on OkCupid much more lately, and I enjoy it a lot more than PoF. It has one nifty little feature that tells you how compatible you are with whatever person, so I added another line onto the marriage line and now I am getting about a 90% reply rate, and about 4-5 messages for the number.

I"ve also found that using the PUA methods also helps in just normal networking where I am not necessarily looking to bag a chick, allowing me to make tremendous strides in my social life.

The thing I like about making them finish the sentence, is you find out how dirty they are based on the reply.

After a rigorously brief overview of your profile I wanted to let you know I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

Your ex-hubby,

Robert

PS I am going to need half your money according to our prenup


haha but seriously, OkCupid basically told me that you and I are so compatible that we are going to finish each others sentences so go ahead and finish this one for me; I just spilled...

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haha, so Xerses just texted me that she and a friend have signed up for ski lessons next weekend and that after that I have to take her to the mountains. I have already informed her that I will not speak to her if she takes up boarding.

Figure I"ll contribute a story or 2:


1. Looking back I can"t even fathom how desperate and naive I was in Highschool. At like 16 I got my first girlfriend, her parents were incredibly religious and didn"t want her to have a boyfriend before college for some reason so we basically rationalized consistent dating to her/them. Still, only got a date every 2 weeks or so + school, I guess. After 6 months, I"ve completely fallen for her but she breaks up with me for no apparent reason. Eventually I convince her to meet me to talk about it and I explain to her that I didn"t know wtf was going on. A week later, she wants to meet again, gives me a letter and drives off. The letter basically explains(over 5 pages) how she thinks she can do better morally, despite the fact that I never took it further than making out.

Which was the catalyst for me leaving that same religion(Mormonism). The culture is just so fucking... conceited.

2. After that relationship(now recently graduated) I rebounded with another girl who was, for all intents and purposes, the polar opposite of the last girl. Atheist, overdosing on painkillers on a regular basis, took eachother"s virginity, fucked up family life, etc. After 6 months(seems to be the special number) of a pretty shitty relationship where I was a complete douchebag to her, I got her pregnant, she got an abortion and broke up with me. I, desperate as I was, clung on for about a year(was used for money, basically). After that, we sort of just decided to call it even and now, 3 years later, we"re best friends. Extremely good best friends, as a matter of fact. We"re thinking of writing a guide book about the true effort needed behind the romantic --> friendship transition.

3. Recently met a girl who is quite easily the hottest woman I"ve ever so much as gone on a date with. On top of that, she started playing WoW, she loved video games, watching movies/cartoons etc... was a total geek. Was also clinically bi-polar. I don"t particularly blame her for that because TBH, she went through more fucked up emotionally traumatizing shit in any given month than I have in my life. But goddamn she was hot. Anyway, we would go out for a month, then she"d completely break off contact without a word of warning. No txts, no calls, no e-mails, nothing. Then 2 weeks later she"d step back in like nothing and act surprised if I mentioned anything about her (enter number of weeks here) absence.

I, being more emotionally distant at this point, was just going along for the ride. Cause, to be honest, this was one seriously awesome girl. So I told her, "you want to be friends, I"ll be your friend, you want to fuck, we"ll fuck, you want to peace out, I"m still good. I know you"ve been through messed up shit and I understand that it in turn messed you up pretty bad, so... whatever."

She sent me a txt directly after saying something to the extent of, "Thanks for being so understanding, you"re awesome". Haven"t heard from her for 2 months since that txt.



On a nicer note, I have another date in... 1 hour, with a girl who, after a month is literally the least crazy woman I"ve ever met. Wish me luck.