Ravvenn said:
What in the world crawled up your vagina and bit your cervix?
this seems to have been passed up and might be forgotten, but never fear for I am here.
please dont hate on dabamf too much. his heart is in the right place. it"s an incredibly common phenomenon for girls online to be bombarded with niceties and offers of support from guys online who think a "gamer" or "tech" girl is special.
the lines that come out of such guys" mouths are almost always disgusting and seem fake as fuck to any observing guy who doesn"t feel the same automatic adoration for online women.
it"s like their eyes glaze over when they perceive there to be an online girl, and they get it in their heads that women online are pioneers and they must be treated delicately and with love (an unsettling kind of love) in order to keep them online and perhaps lure more.
in a way, dabamf is fighting for the equality of women. however it"s a tough fight because a large number of the women who come online are ones that come online for the attention (and don"t get it offline). in the end when someone like dabamf tries to publicly chastize a man for devolving into such disgusting behavior he only manages to spark an argument over the relevant girl. (and the girl loooves being the center of an argument amongst men, even if they are nearly anonymous nerdy men)
then the girl can then call dabamf a big meanie, complain why dabamf doesnt like her, and whiteknights will rush to put down dabamf so as to diminish the weight of his opinions while simultaneously spamming the girl with niceties and support.
it seems to me you aren"t this kind of pathetic attention seeking girl, which can make it all the more lame when you"re perceived to receive auto-matic-girl-adoration type praise rather than any praise you might actually be due.
why is it annoying to an observer? not exactly sure. at the very least, people like dabamf (which includes me) just feel sick (literally it"s disgusting) reading those lines, so we"re going to try and reduce the number of those lines. I personally gave up that crusade a long time ago, but I relate to dabamf. Hell, there are countless MMO guilds out there with girls who are flattered incessantly, ran through instances, etc, all because she giggles and needs help. whatever makes those involved happy I guess.
he quoted Cam. and it"s true cam revealed that he knows you so his soppy love is cool. but look at who cam quoted. to the outside observer, it doesnt seem like that dude knows you, and his post disgusts me. it"s like asking a rhetorical question of :how is this girl so perfect? while within a few feet of her. yet you"re online, have had no real interaction with this girl, have no real knowledge of this girl, and you say that? it means the man is pretty pathetic.
and these kinds of guys are like weeds. they"re unfortunately everywhere.