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Why do people say that?
Ned obstinately trying to protect women and children is what started this whole thing, not Ned unwilling to operate in gray areas.
Ned, took a hit to his honor and vows to protect Jon snow. Grey area, in the name of protecting a child.
Argued against killing Dany as a child.
Ned went against the laws, customs, etc to attempt to protect Circe and her children from Robert, due to Circes treason. Grey area, where he was clearly in the wrong, in the name of protecting children. THAT got him killed, and that started this. He tried to offer shelter and a way out to someone that committed the highest of treason... how is that not willing to operate in a gray area? arguably "operating in a grey area" by not killing the treasonous whore immediately, was his biggest mistake.
Ned then sullied his own good name, by pleading guilty to treason that he didnt do, in the name of protecting his children..
Protecting children was his only "flaw". He was just fine with many other grey areas, breaking tradition, breaking vows, laws, etc as needed.
it's been a long time so i don't remember all the specifics... but i would argue that the most honorable thing would be to sacrifice your personal honor for the sake of someone else. being honorable and law-abiding isn't always the same thing. ned was willing to let his own name get dragged through the mud to keep others safe, which is incredibly honorable. however, in hindsight, playing the game that everyone else in king's landing was playing COULD have saved a whole lot of people. or it would have just continued the nonsense that had been going on for generations, solving nothing. so /shrug