so... before this all blew up, me and the wife had a fight , during which she called me dickless and that i cannot stay hard, i took it and blamed it on my colitus, even though i have no problem getting and staying hard for drugged out hookers
anyway the real reason...is that fucking my wife has become like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. it happened to her during menopause or so i concluded, because she was really tight,
so no oral, no friction during sex, i tried to encourage her into other positions with the hope that i would feel something, but even that did not go over well
so here she is insulting me, with something that is her fault, and i never called her on it
should i point these facts out to her now ? i feel doing so would only hurt her more, yet i feel she should be aware