I don't agree with this. He comes home and randomly says "let's drop everything here and move to California, even though you've got a great job and are actively living your dream of acting in a successful TV show." Don said he needed the move to California, that he couldn't go on like he had been in NYC. She agreed to the move out of concern for him and his well-being.
And then he pulls the rug out from under her.
I also think it isn't fair to say that Megan "wore a mask" to get Don. It's not like she plotted and actively tried to con him into marrying her. She really did love him deeply (I don't see how anyone can doubt that fact) but she gradually changed as a person after they got married. People change; if you're a well-adjusted individual who loves your partner, you deal with it. If you're Don Draper, you go fuck some other broad and drink yourself into a stupor.