Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Frenzied Wombat

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fifey_sl said:
A marriage is you and another person deciding to incorporate, nothing more. What terms you negotiate before the merger is up to each individual.

Quit being prudes.
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Hah, until your wife hires a lawyer with a $200 pocket square and a vanity plate that reads "Sir Ike". Then your merger agreement can get fucked.

Cad probably knows "Sir Ike"; he's probably responsible for handling more Kramer vs Kramer battles in Highland Park than anybody else.
 
Famm

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Vandyn_sl said:
This goes back to my question of if your husband sleeps around too (he doesn't it seems). Since you say this took a long time for you to reach this point, what if the shoe was on the other foot. What if after you sleep with this guy in NY he comes to you 6 months later and says 'can I sleep with this chick in...' Are you going to be cool with that?
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Let's get real, if he were that sort of guy he'd be pushing for getting another woman in their bed, not begging his wife to fuck another man to help him beat off.
 
Frenzied Wombat

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Cad_sl said:
It's not cheating if everyone is aware of whats going on. There's your disconnect.
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Agreed, that's why I said "they can do as they please if it's agreed to by both parties". To me, marriage has always been about finding the one you love so much, and turns you on to such a degree, that you don't want another woman. Marriage is you finding "the one", not "the One and anybody else that turns me on X+ years from now". It's one thing for it to happen unplanned and organically (like Lindz), it's another thing to have it as part of your plan pre-marriage. In the case of the latter, I don't understand the purpose of getting married.
 
Cad

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Frenzied Wombat_sl said:
Hah, until your wife hires a lawyer with a $200 pocket square and a vanity plate that reads "Sir Ike". Then your merger agreement can get fucked.

Cad probably knows "Sir Ike"; he's probably responsible for handling more Kramer vs Kramer battles in Highland Park than anybody else.
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I don't do family law, and try not to get involved in any family law disputes. But I looked and his billing rate is only $700/hr, so he's got some headroom.
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lindz

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Khane_sl said:
Fess up Lindz. Is he your guild leader?
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Haha, funny that you ask that. Remember my husbandwasmy guildleader (or linkshell - FFXI days). Nah but this guy and I built a guild together, though I asked him to be guild leader this time round because I just did it on Nostalrius and was tired of being nice to people. He's a lot nicer than me. So for the month that we were playing, he was technically my guildleader!
 
Frenzied Wombat

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Cad_sl said:
I don't do family law, and try not to get involved in any family law disputes. But I looked and his billing rate is only $700/hr, so he's got some headroom.
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Lol
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I think he charges $250/hr for paralegal work, and bills for even dreaming about your case, so that probably makes up for it.
 
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Frenzied Wombat_sl said:
Agreed, that's why I said "they can do as they please if it's agreed to by both parties". To me, marriage has always been about finding the one you love so much, and turns you on to such a degree, that you don't want another woman. Marriage is you finding "the one", not "the One and anybody else that turns me on X+ years from now". It's one thing for it to happen unplanned and organically (like Lindz), it's another thing to have it as part of your plan pre-marriage. In the case of the latter, I don't understand the purpose of getting married.
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I mean it just depends. You're seeing it as "I am sick of banging you, and now I want to bang others." It doesn't have to be like that. The one doing the banging may not even be especially turned on by it. It might be that the other one wants you to do it, and it's a turn on for them to watch you be sexual. It's one of those things that you'd never know until you get a glimpse of it, and it might wreck you, or you might be the hardest/wettest you've ever been in your life. It probably doesn't appeal to most people (and it doesn't to me), but you aren't doing yourself any favors by just saying, fuck that, never trying it, mind closed. Try shit, if you like it, great. If you don't, no harm no foul. Where people get derailed and in trouble is by lying to their spouse, hiding things, and being emotionally/intellectually dishonest with each other.
 
lindz

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chaos_sl said:
Guild leaders are supposed to be nice to people? I have done this wrong for YEARS.
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Well, I was just tired of dealing with crap. People want you to talk to them and shit when you're a guild leader. I didn't feel like doing it again so soon. I'm always the guild leader between me and the husband, and I'm definitely not nice.
 
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