Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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DickTrickle

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I'm just curious what stealing naked pics of a wife's friend and jacking off to it ranks on the solid marriage scale.
 

BrotherWu

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Not to white knight, but I assume the sexy and powerful feeling lindz is getting is not just from the new guy but also that she's cucking her husband and he's getting off on it. As I said, I don't get it from his perspective but I could see how it could give her those feelings given that she is simultaneously, and with their knowledge, being lusted after and shared by two men.
 

Frenzied Wombat

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Because as others including Lindz have said, there is a lot to marriage beyond who you sport bang for fun once in a while. You can be completely in love with someone, and totally do threesomes, foursomes, or play separately and still be in love and still want to be married.

It's not for everyone and it's not a requirement by any means, but a marriage isn't defined by a_skeleton_03. It's defined by the people in the marriage. If they're happy with their definition, fuck off with your judgment.

Where people in here pass judgment or tell a person to get out is when one person is obviously being lied to, emotionally manipulated, or otherwise being taken advantage of. Having a partnership where one or both of you are sexually open by agreement is none of those things. Jesus Christ people this isn't that complicated.
To me, you explicitly take avowto be monogamous when you get married. That's part of the defined ruleset. I have nothing against shacking up for eternity, loving each other, and inviting everybody from midgets to porn starts to join you in the bedroom-- live your life the way you like. But if you're getting married, imho you've chosen to be monogamous and live by a certain set of rules. Without these rules and obligations, it's just a stupid piece of paper that carries a tax break.
 

lindz

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Regardless though, different people expect, want and are ok with different things in their relationships.

I'm not judging a_skeleton_03 for the state of his marriage. If it makes him and his wife happy, then power to them. This started with Tenks asking for a status update, I gave it. Maybe a few weeks from now, I'll come crying back here about disastrous results. Maybe I won't, and we'll still be happy. I've appreciated the words of wisdom from people though!

Onoes, jump back in an derail this with that epic you were promising!
 

a_skeleton_03

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You must be a lot different out in the real world than you are on the internet. Because there's no fucking way you have that many friends otherwise.
This was the part to emphasize. Not how people you know a_skeleton_03.
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Lenas

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Jesus christ you guys are creepy with all the pic requests. This isn't screenshots you sad fucks.
 

Khane

Got something right about marriage
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Onoes is in love and doesn't like anal. He has nothing to offer this thread.
 

Famm

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Lindz get your husband and/or cuckolding toy in here posting as well so we can get a proper overall perspective on the matter.
 

Cad

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To me, you explicitly take avowto be monogamous when you get married. That's part of the defined ruleset. I have nothing against shacking up for eternity, loving each other, and inviting everybody from midgets to porn starts to join you in the bedroom-- live your life the way you like. But if you're getting married, imho you've chosen to be monogamous and live by a certain set of rules. Without these rules and obligations, it's just a stupid piece of paper that carries a tax break.
I don't know what wedding vows you took when you got married (oh wait) but afaik the common marriage vows don't say anything about sex or monogamy. And whatever the agreement is between two other people is literally none of your business or concern.
 

Tenks

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I don't know what wedding vows you took when you got married (oh wait) but afaik the common marriage vows don't say anything about sex or monogamy. And whatever the agreement is between two other people is literally none of your business or concern.
My wife had the "and obey" stricken from the vows
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Vandyn

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Regardless though, different people expect, want and are ok with different things in their relationships.

I'm not judging a_skeleton_03 for the state of his marriage. If it makes him and his wife happy, then power to them. This started with Tenks asking for a status update, I gave it. Maybe a few weeks from now, I'll come crying back here about disastrous results. Maybe I won't, and we'll still be happy. I've appreciated the words of wisdom from people though!

Onoes, jump back in an derail this with that epic you were promising!
This goes back to my question of if your husband sleeps around too (he doesn't it seems). Since you say this took a long time for you to reach this point, what if the shoe was on the other foot. What if after you sleep with this guy in NY he comes to you 6 months later and says 'can I sleep with this chick in...' Are you going to be cool with that?