Ehh it's just the person. Have a few dude friends that constantly complain about work.
have you worked in a woman dominated workplace?
I have.
gossip
backstab
and yeah pretty sure they have "venue" to bitch about their co-workers everywhere at work.
Or washroom.
Which store do you work at?
Oh god I just had the realization that we may have seen each other
You're driving home, it's an hour later than when your shift was supposed to end, and you're rehashing the day's events with the rude customers and near-accidents and getting howled at by homeless people or dealing with people who try to short-change you, and you want the one legitimately-sympathetic person you've got ready access to to listen to you vent. It's a question of curating what you bitch about.