Tarrant
<Prior Amod>
Well that's good you always have something to come back to then. That was my biggest concern, dirvorce is hard enough, I can't imagin going through it if you're overseas and trying to come back so you can start over again .No, you're right. It's nuts. I can't wait to see what my parents say (read: mother. My dad wouldn't give a shit) if something comes of it, or, god forbid, hers, which I've never even met before. She's never met my parents either.
It's nuts but it's exciting nuts. I sort of have permanent security here, as I work for my family's business. So in that regard, I'm not incredibly worried, there will always be something here for me if I want it.
I wish you luck man, both you and your future wife!