Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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mkopec

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Never read a book about mens programming and infidelity problems, but Im sure society does program men as well.

Here it is, I found it...

Womens Infidelity

Also I will say that it happened to me, Ill just leave it at that.
 

The Ancient_sl

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Men's programming is to fuck everything that moves so I'd say our problems with fidelity are just as severe.

Or the whole thing is stupid, you can take your pick.
 

Deathwing

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But if it's programming, it's not your fault if you stick your dick in the wrong vagina. Or wrap your vagina around the wrong dick. Society made you the shitty person you are today.
 

mkopec

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Well lets look at how men are treated when they get all the pussy they want. They get high fives from buddies, even fathers/mentor figures. Women? not so much. A womans worth is how few sexual partners she has. Anything above they are called a whore and become an unsuitable mating partner.
 

BoldW

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Well lets look at how men are treated when they get all the pussy they want. They get high fives from buddies, even fathers/mentor figures. Women? not so much. A womans worth is how few sexual partners she has. Anything above they are called a whore and become an unsuitable mating partner.
Keys and Locks.
 

The Ancient_sl

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Well lets look at how men are treated when they get all the pussy they want. They get high fives from buddies, even fathers/mentor figures. Women? not so much. A womans worth is how few sexual partners she has. Anything above they are called a whore and become an unsuitable mating partner.
What's your point here? This is an argument as to why men would be more promiscuous.
 

mkopec

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And men do cheat more often than women. But women do too, and the rates have been rising.

Maybe humans are not meant to be monogamous? If nearly 1/3 and 1/4 of men and woman cheat, respectively.

Also I really wasnt making an argument, just informing what I read about the subject, thats all.
 

mkopec

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Also I would like to see some true numbers of women/men cheating and the advent of facebook/networking/social media phenomenon.
 

Leadsalad

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As a man, does an attractive female with a low partner count (including 0) dissuade you from her? No other information is provided beyond that and her appearance.

As a woman, does an attractive male with a 0 (zero) partner count dissuade you from him? Again no other information beyond that and his appearance is provided.

Someone can probably see where this is headed almost immediately.
 

lindz

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When did I ever say that my thoughts on women and why they do the things they do is a negative? Because I'm not sugarcoating the staunch reality of women's communication methods, it must mean I'm being a misogynistic pig, right?

Realizing that your current mindset is not entirely accurate is a difficult conversation to have with yourself, I'm sure. Unfortunately, you, just like many other male posters in this thread, probably won't come to terms with your faults and inaccuracies in mindset. That is, until you've had significant enough trauma to break you down. Most men in this thread simply haven't had the experience(s) that would make them reconsider their perspective. Which is fine, I get that. I can't force you to believe or change your perspective, all I can do is offer an alternative. I'm just breaking down the cold reality of women and the how/why of what they do. It really isn't intended as a negative and it's unfortunate that you guys are interpreting it as such.
Why do you feel you are the only one that has a true grasp on this reality? Why is your negative experiences with women the reality, not the positive experiences other men are claiming? Why do you have more authority than others? Why is my female point of view not only wrong, but a lie? Much of my point in this is that you come to this thread spouting The TruthT and anyone who thinks differently is an idiot.

Women are all different, just like men are. When you make hostile generalizations it just sounds silly to me because for me personally, none of what you are saying fits the way I think or feel. I don't know, I just don't live in a world where absolutely everyone is malicious and out to fuck over everyone else.
 

lindz

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As a man, does an attractive female with a low partner count (including 0) dissuade you from her? No other information is provided beyond that and her appearance.

As a woman, does an attractive male with a 0 (zero) partner count dissuade you from him? Again no other information beyond that and his appearance is provided.

Someone can probably see where this is headed almost immediately.
Not in the least.^

High partner count would make me by hesitate.
 

The Ancient_sl

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As a man, does an attractive female with a low partner count (including 0) dissuade you from her? No other information is provided beyond that and her appearance.

As a woman, does an attractive male with a 0 (zero) partner count dissuade you from him? Again no other information beyond that and his appearance is provided.

Someone can probably see where this is headed almost immediately.
I can't see where this is heading... you think women demand their man has tons of sexual partners previous?

Even the women who are attracted to men who are notorious players probably trick themselves into believing that man's number is lower.

I think both men and women are hesitant to take a partner who's number is 0.
 

Fifey

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Men aren't supposed to be monogamous, we are wired to try and put our fucks in everything we can. How is that even a question.
 

TrollfaceDeux

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Men aren't supposed to be monogamous, we are wired to try and put our fucks in everything we can. How is that even a question.
men can spread their seeds 24/7 given that their testies can produce the amount of sperm needed to meet the demand.

Woman? Not so much. Once a month, if not ever. Their fragility goes beyond that. They can only hold one offspring at a time whereasmen can do as many as they can any time any day.This was basically the way the world worked before religion kicked in.That's why women are treated differently when it comes to cheating. Women's sex is more valuable than men basically.

so i guess programming is a wrong description. It is a reaction to condition set by their body.