Big_w_powah
Trakanon Raider
- 1,887
- 750
Sounds like you know your husband about as well as you knew what the future would hold when you were 19.
Lindz listen... people change, they get overwhelmed. Some people can cope, some can't. Your husband, for all the support you've given him, seems to be slipping further into self indulgence rather than doing what's right for his family. There's a point where you, as his wife, are going to need to give him a wake up call.

I'm not certain his idea of a wake up call is the right move to make (guessing into his disturbed, but accurate, mind here)
But you need to slap him, figuratively or literally, and explain to him his ass needs to fucking step up.
Can't write cause he's waiting for edits? Theres a million things around the house. Motherfucker can shop for groceries, do the dishes, etc.
I worked at home for 6 years, I understand this shit. Shit, my wife was a house wife while I worked at home. I still mowed the fucking lawn and made the bed. I still cooked lunch and dinner, I still took the fuckin kids to school.
Sorry, but whatever he's going through. Whatever the reason? Fuck that shit. Snap him out of it. If he refuses to snap out of it? Bounce.
Now, I'm not advocating ultimatums here. Shit takes time, especially if it is depression. But fuck. He needs to start down the path.
- 3
- 1