Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Big_w_powah

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I dunno.

I mean, if its "do the laundry and I'll let you fuck me"...Yeah, no.

If its "give me a back rub" or "give me a foot rub"...Then, yeah, thats fine with me. You're looking for the physical pleasure of sex. She is less interested in that, but instead is leveraging for a physical pleasure she wants; A massage. To me thats a fair trade.
 
pharmakos

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well yeah, trading chores for sex and whatnot is bad, but i don't see the big deal about a backrub. it's often just part of foreplay for us.

---- new posts since i typed that. yeah, what powah said.
 
jayrebb

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Deathwing said:
If I'm just going to user her holes, might as well jerk off and save her the inconvenience of cleanup. Anyone else going through stuff like this? Is there a good reason that I should accept her offers, from her point of view?
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Answer highly dependent on whether you are circumcised!
 
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Deathwing said:
That little skin skirt doesn't contain the mess as much as you'd think it would.
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Well maybe not but you're at least going to be living friction-burn free.

There is only so much fappage a circumcised gent is going to get away with before its "fuck this, healing time wheres the pussy at".
 
Deathwing

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jayrebb said:
Well maybe not but you're at least going to be living friction-burn free.

There is only so much fappage a circumcised gent is going to get away with before its "fuck this, healing time wheres the pussy at".
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Oh, definitely. I wonder if that affects my decision to just say "nah, I'll masturbate instead".
 
Mrs. Gravy

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Steady gave me a rather thoughtful gift for Christmas...and for a first Christmas an expensive one. He bought me an original drawing from a gallery we had gone to last June. He remembered how much I liked it, but he said the images reminded him of me. He could have bought a print and I would have loved it, he said yeah, he could have, but that for me, only the original would do. It may be one of the most thoughtful gifts I have ever been given.
I think he likes me.
 
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Namon

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Maybe I'm just getting old or something. I ask my wife for sex pretty much every day. I understand she's tired(I usually am too, still want sex), things gets in the way, etc, so I'm not disappointed when nothing results most of the time. But lately I've been getting these kind of incongruous trades. Sometimes she'll just let me fuck her. Most of the time it's a back rub for her to let me fuck her.

I feel like younger me might have jumped on these more often. But older me wants actual sex, as in pleasuring each other. If I'm just going to user her holes, might as well jerk off and save her the inconvenience of cleanup. Anyone else going through stuff like this? Is there a good reason that I should accept her offers, from her point of view?
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Been going through this myself. I'll still give the back rubs, but yeah sex has mostly been come get it if you want it, but dick in hole and get it done with so I can go to sleep kind of sex. Don't touch my boobs, kiss, or anything else kind of sex, so yeah jerking off to memories of actually going full rut for both of us was starting to become more enjoyable. Then over Christmas break, she busted out in lingerie and was uncomfortable in it and it was the same old boring sex, and while I didn't come across as confrontational about it, I somehow conveyed that it was boring and that I love her in lingerie and want us to both be involved. (It was 2 weeks and a bout with the flu ago, so I can't remember what it was that I said). The next morning she literally said she was on a mission to be a "better wife" and the following week she set out to give head and let me go down on her. In the process we found a BJ position she is much more comfortable with and we rolled with it... all week. It was glorious. If the sex drives wildly differ like mine and my wife's I can only imagine that marriage is full of periods like these, and I just have decided to weather those storms and cherish the moments when she actually is horny enough to fully be what I desire. She tries, she really does, and that's better than a lot of dudes out there.
 
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Prodigal

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Deathwing said:
Maybe I'm just getting old or something. I ask my wife for sex pretty much every day. I understand she's tired(I usually am too, still want sex), things gets in the way, etc, so I'm not disappointed when nothing results most of the time. But lately I've been getting these kind of incongruous trades. Sometimes she'll just let me fuck her. Most of the time it's a back rub for her to let me fuck her.

I feel like younger me might have jumped on these more often. But older me wants actual sex, as in pleasuring each other. If I'm just going to user her holes, might as well jerk off and save her the inconvenience of cleanup. Anyone else going through stuff like this? Is there a good reason that I should accept her offers, from her point of view?
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I’ve already gotten old. When we were younger my wife used to pull the “probably interested in sex, but cleaning the kitchen wears me out.” I’ve always done as much cleaning (both work full-time) as she has, but she can’t stand to let anything sit in the sink for even 30 minutes while we let our meal settle. So I’d clean up the kitchen, do some other stuff and then come time to hit the bed she’s all “well I’ll lay here and let you fuck me”... oh joy, that sounds amazing.

She’s paying for it now - I’m twice as old, she’s carrying extra lbs. and the libidos have flipped. She bitches about always having to initiate sex - I’ve no sympathy whatsoever. “Hey, you can jump on if you want, just don’t block the TV.”
 
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Oblio

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Prodigal said:
I’ve already gotten old. When we were younger my wife used to pull the “probably interested in sex, but cleaning the kitchen wears me out.” I’ve always done as much cleaning (both work full-time) as she has, but she can’t stand to let anything sit in the sink for even 30 minutes while we let our meal settle. So I’d clean up the kitchen, do some other stuff and then come time to hit the bed she’s all “well I’ll lay here and let you fuck me”... oh joy, that sounds amazing.

She’s paying for it now - I’m twice as old, she’s carrying extra lbs. and the libidos have flipped. She bitches about always having to initiate sex - I’ve no sympathy whatsoever. “Hey, you can jump on if you want, just don’t block the TV.”
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That might be the saddest thing I have ever read on FoH. I am 41 and I want it every day, twice if it were possible with our schedules. I am afraid to get old and lose my libido.
 
Prodigal

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Oblio said:
That might be the saddest thing I have ever read on FoH. I am 41 and I want it every day, twice if it were possible with our schedules. I am afraid to get old and lose my libido.
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Heheh well it isn’t lost, but no doubt I don’t go asking for it every day. Whether that’s all libido or (more likely) a combination of lower libido, extra stress, resentment and just plain tired of her BS. I’ve mentioned it before but she’s had some issues related to being raised by a worthless fucktard of a dad that I was unaware of until later on in our marriage but explain a lot of the BS I dealt with.
 
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