For our entertainment I suggest you court her and do everything in your power to get her to come to the UK and set up shop. Don't be a pussy now.
This is how a pussy talks.We've spoke about "it" in a hypothetical jokey way - she thinks I live in a village and would only move to London. I'm not selling up to move in with a volcano. Plus she owns the largest BDSM playspace in her Country.
She's having another party in a few weeks. I could roll the dice again and hope that they have a fight the week/day of the party so that I don't have to meet him - but knowing what I know now I definitely can't risk being in the same place as him, especially in an environment with alcohol and cocaine.
So what’s the foundation for your friendship besides kink/bsdm/sex in general? You’re both deadheads? A mutual love of impressionist paintings?
How’re you today, Mrs. Lurkingdirk?Mutual appreciation of leather, I guess.
Does anyone have experience of getting friends out of similar situations?
She is a true "femme fatale"
Her friends assured me he is jealous of everyone close to her -
How’re you today, Mrs. Lurkingdirk?
Yes. Unsuccessfully. The thing about a girl like that is that she WANTS a guy who will beat her. Not that she wants to be beaten, but she wants a bad boy who would do it. There may come a day when she can be happy with a dude who would never beat her, but probably not.
How big a boy is he? In other words, can you take him? Unarmed? When he is armed and attacks you from behind? Because if you keep meddling in his relationship that's a likely outcome.
So what’s the foundation for your friendship besides kink/bsdm/sex in general? You’re both deadheads? A mutual love of impressionist paintings?
Mutual appreciation of leather, I guess.
This is weapons grade psycho dude. Just walk away.As I said, I spent weekend with her in January because she wanted to make the BF jealous (although she didn't say why when we planned the trip - it was me replying to her Instagram story asking if anyone wanted to go away, six hours later I was on a plane, although it was obvious something was up)
Solid advice.For our entertainment I suggest you court her and do everything in your power to get her to come to the UK and set up shop. Don't be a pussy now.
I mean, put whatever label you want on it, it’s clear this girl isn’t your friend. Plus she seems like a garbage human (you seem to acknowledge that by calling her a psycho).I assume something happened to her in childhood that both sparked her extreme sadism and is the root cause of what you describe. I know when she was 14 she got "I am all alone" tattooed on her back in French, and I know she never talks about her father. I've asked about him but so far she's yet to disclose.
I told her last week that maybe this is something from childhood repeating
No idea how tall he is tbh. And I can't see that happening, as I said I don't feel like gambling on the next party so I can't see any other opportunity where we'll be
Started off as a mutual attraction, she said we had "instant chemistry" then she said she wanted to "party with me". As I said, I spent weekend with her in January because she wanted to make the BF jealous (although she didn't say why when we planned the trip - it was me replying to her Instagram story asking if anyone wanted to go away, six hours later I was on a plane, although it was obvious something was up)
I told her on holiday "it feels like I'm a substitute boyfriend for all the things your BF doesn't like" eg he's not into fetish parties and I don't think he's really a "party guy". I don't really go out partying any more and haven't for the last seven years, but I can still have a good time.
We both agree that we're a bad influence on each other - the hotel orgy with 3 random Spanish girls was the craziest thing I've ever experienced but it doesn't surprise me one bit that it happened on our first holiday together just because of the way we are together
The appeal for me, apart from hanging out with a hot girl 13 years younger than me is I can be anyone I want around her because she doesn't know "me". She said she likes "men like you, who are extroverted and charismatic" and I had to stop myself from refuting that, lol.
Likewise, meeting her friends last week - they don't know I spent my late teens and early twenties playing MMOs, that I had to study PUA stuff to lose my virginity or anything else I'm self conscious of around people in my local social circle (which is basically non existent)
She's big into latex
I assume something happened to her in childhood that both sparked her extreme sadism and is the root cause of what you describe. I know when she was 14 she got "I am all alone" tattooed on her back in French, and I know she never talks about her father. I've asked about him but so far she's yet to disclose.
I told her last week that maybe this is something from childhood repeating
No idea how tall he is tbh. And I can't see that happening, as I said I don't feel like gambling on the next party so I can't see any other opportunity where we'll be
Started off as a mutual attraction, she said we had "instant chemistry" then she said she wanted to "party with me". As I said, I spent weekend with her in January because she wanted to make the BF jealous (although she didn't say why when we planned the trip - it was me replying to her Instagram story asking if anyone wanted to go away, six hours later I was on a plane, although it was obvious something was up)
I told her on holiday "it feels like I'm a substitute boyfriend for all the things your BF doesn't like" eg he's not into fetish parties and I don't think he's really a "party guy". I don't really go out partying any more and haven't for the last seven years, but I can still have a good time.
We both agree that we're a bad influence on each other - the hotel orgy with 3 random Spanish girls was the craziest thing I've ever experienced but it doesn't surprise me one bit that it happened on our first holiday together just because of the way we are together
The appeal for me, apart from hanging out with a hot girl 13 years younger than me is I can be anyone I want around her because she doesn't know "me". She said she likes "men like you, who are extroverted and charismatic" and I had to stop myself from refuting that, lol.
Likewise, meeting her friends last week - they don't know I spent my late teens and early twenties playing MMOs, that I had to study PUA stuff to lose my virginity or anything else I'm self conscious of around people in my local social circle (which is basically non existent)
She's big into latex
I will admit, I'd prolly fall into this trap. Go for it Ossoi and report back after you run to the police station naked with a horse bridle in your mouth
You posted something funny for once.How in the hell did you know?
I have to agree here. If this pretty psycho whore showed up at my doorstep unexpectedly and wanted to live with me I'd have a very hard time saying no. In fact, let's be real I'd go into it full bore knowing it was an absolutely retarded idea and I shouldn't do it.
But what a ride it would be.
This woman isnt your "friend". Shes a parasite who USES you to torture her boyfriend.
I mean, put whatever label you want on it, it’s clear this girl isn’t your friend.