Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Ossoi

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The only thing I get out of this is that you are jealous. Whether or not you admit this to yourself.

The position you're truly in here is potentially being Sub 3 at her beck and call or used as a foil to piss off her fiance. This sociopath who got her to commit to him far more than she ever committed to you.
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I was very jealous last year to the point it was consuming me

And re the second point, yeah I first met her as a client and that's when she invited me to a fetish party with her.

One of her subs lives in same city with her and is actually legit her slave - drives her round, works for her at her BDSM studio for free, is cameraman for her fetish clips etc.

The other sub lives abroad like me, earns good money and buys her a shit ton of gifts but gets very annoyed that he only spends time with her when he pays for it. She has told him that she doesn't view her subs as friends/people just possessions like furniture. He has been asking questions about the amount of time I've been spending with her and why he can't get similar

And since NYE, I've been hanging out with this other Domme chick from the same BDSM studio/parties. I think she just does it as a job, whereas it's a lifestyle/passion for the one we're talking about. In fact, I took this other girl out along with her seven year old daughter who ended up cock blocking me.
 
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Ossoi said:
I was very jealous last year to the point it was consuming me

And re the second point, yeah I first met her as a client and that's when she invited me to a fetish party with her.

One of her subs lives in same city with her and is actually legit her slave - drives her round, works for her at her BDSM studio for free, is cameraman for her fetish clips etc.

The other sub lives abroad like me, earns good money and buys her a shit ton of gifts but gets very annoyed that he only spends time with her when he pays for it. She has told him that she doesn't view her subs as friends/people just possessions like furniture. He has been asking questions about the amount of time I've been spending with her and why he can't get similar

And since NYE, I've been hanging out with this other Domme chick from the same BDSM studio/parties. I think she just does it as a job, whereas it's a lifestyle/passion for the one we're talking about. In fact, I took this other girl out along with her seven year old daughter who ended up cock blocking me.
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I am sure someone has said it before me but you are going to wake up one day and realize that your life is devoid of meaning and it will be a very hard day for you. You are going to parties and chasing women with boyfriends or kids that live in a fetishized world that is unhealthy for everyone it touches. You are so obsessed with looks and status that it is affecting your whole life. Do you think anybody at these parties is going to be worth a shit to anyone once their looks have faded away?

Every single bit of this post makes me feel sorry for that seven year old girl and satisfied with every life choice I ever made.
 
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Ossoi said:
Surely I have spelt it out enough by now?

We spent several weekends together last year pre lockdown, as soon as lockdown ended she wanted to go away together, and since August I've been coming here every 4-6 weeks to see her and attend her fetish parties.

I came in December for the NYE party, that was also to spend Xmas/NYE with the psycho girl I had to kick out who I'd met over here. And in January when my first flight home got cancelled I decided to stay for another eight weeks.

This trip has really shown me that we are very good friends and that she does legitimately care about me, because she's made sure I've been included in almost everything she's been doing and keeps telling me I should move here.

It's at the point now where I'm legit thinking to myself that I'm not used to having a friend who is so open about how much they value the friendship and I'm semi scared that I'm gonna do or say something that fucks it up.


So yeah, I don't think there's anything out of the ordinary for hoping that a very close friend eventually wakes up and leaves her self described toxic relationship with a sociopath, and that she survives the aftermath.
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Sounds like you give her money.

Hope much money do you give her?
 
Ossoi

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OU Ariakas said:
You are so obsessed with looks and status that it is affecting your whole life. Do you think anybody at these parties is going to be worth a shit to anyone once their looks have faded away?

Every single bit of this post makes me feel sorry for that seven year old girl and satisfied with every life choice I ever made.
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Have I said anything about looks - the people into the fetish scene come in all shapes and sizes

And yes, her mother isn't going to be winning mother of the year any time soon - which is why I said we could do something fun with the kid.
 
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Ossoi said:
This is true. I've lusted after her for a while - any man would, she's super hot and she's legitimately one of those people that has an "aura" about her - and yeah, there's only ever been the one occasion where we did anything remotely intimate.





if by won you mean:

1. Got engaged to a girl that thinks he's a sociopath, knows their relationship is toxic/abusive but stays because she is too fucked up to enjoy a "normal" relationship and gets off on the danger.

2. Got engaged to a pro Dominatrix / Onlyfans model who shoots hardcore fetish porn every week and who keeps two "permanent" subs at her beck and call

3. Got engaged to a girl that was on holiday with her ex and found a random local to fuck in order to spite him. Keeps tinder on her phone and pulls it out during arguments and threatens to find random dudes off it.

4. Got engaged to a girl whose emotional intelligence consists of "come to the illegal parties I organise even though you don't want to risk it getting busted by the police and losing your lawyer job because if you don't I'll break up with you"

5. Got engaged to a self described "bipolar, narccissistic party girl" with a cocaine habit, who apparently makes you do cocaine occasionally even though you don't want to". And who is out almost every weekend getting drunk/high

6. Got engaged to a girl whose schedule nowhere near matches your own, hence you sleep in separate beds

7. Got engaged to a girl who went on holiday with another dude, let him eat her pussy and thinks it's no big deal because she knows you're obsessed with her and she can get away with it


She's a prize in that she's super hot, super kinky but there is no way she is relationship/wife material. Especially not for a lawyer - they just aren't compatible at all. If me and him actually spoke then I would ask "dude, where the fuck are your friends" because there seems to be nobody stating the obvious to him.

It will all end in tears at some point, for both of them - she told me before the engagement that he "could destroy me if he wanted"

I think the dude is a fucking idiot for ignoring the multiple red flags, but at the same time I sympathise because I know that if she lived down the road from me and was interested, then I'd probably go "ahh what's the worst that can happen" and give it a shot
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Adebisi

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So I smoked after work the other day. Was really baked. My cute neighbor asked for some help with some project she was doing.
I hesitated because I like high time spent alone. But went over because hot.

I just now realized I talked to her for who knows long about how I was really digging sea shanties lately.

Sigh
 
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Adebisi said:
So I smoked a little after work the other day. Was really baked. My cute neighbor asked for some help with some project she was doing.
I hesitated because I like high time spent alone. But went over because hot.

I just now realized I talked to her for who knows long about how I was really digging sea shanties lately.

Sigh
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Are you kidding? You set it up to slay that pussy. She'll hang on your every word henceforth.
 
Adebisi

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I honestly can't with this girl. I can't be having a relationship with someone who lives in the house across the street.

20 year old bisi wouldn't care. 39 year old bisi knows the complexities too well.

I'd fuck my boss at work before I fuck someone with a mortgage across the street from me
 
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Adebisi said:
I honestly can't with this girl. I can't be having a relationship with someone who lives in the house across the street.

20 year old bisi wouldn't care. 39 year old bisi knows the complexities too well.

I'd fuck my boss at work before I fuck someone with a mortgage across the street from me
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Could always go trans if theres fallout. Dead naming is a felony in Canada right?
 
Adebisi

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I should add that I like the people in my neighborhood

But the wives are all bored gossip queens. Covid makes it worse.
 
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Adebisi said:
I honestly can't with this girl. I can't be having a relationship with someone who lives in the house across the street.

20 year old bisi wouldn't care. 39 year old bisi knows the complexities too well.

I'd fuck my boss at work before I fuck someone with a mortgage across the street from me
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Man I feel like I've seen this Dateline episode before
 
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Adebisi said:
So I smoked after work the other day. Was really baked. My cute neighbor asked for some help with some project she was doing.
I hesitated because I like high time spent alone. But went over because hot.

I just now realized I talked to her for who knows long about how I was really digging sea shanties lately.

Sigh
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Adebisi said:
I should add that I like the people in my neighborhood

But the wives are all bored gossip queens. Covid makes it worse.
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Dude she could not be any more clear if she dropped her shorts and waved you in with lit cones and runway lights going from her ankles to her honey pot. Roll the fucking dice. Compared to the couch surfer, this is a unicorn.
 
Adebisi

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Phazael said:
Dude she could not be any more clear if she dropped her shorts and waved you in with lit cones and runway lights going from her ankles to her honey pot. Roll the fucking dice. Compared to the couch surfer, this is a unicorn.
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Nope

Not gunna

Not my first rodeo sir
 
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Phazael said:
Dude she could not be any more clear if she dropped her shorts and waved you in with lit cones and runway lights going from her ankles to her honey pot. Roll the fucking dice. Compared to the couch surfer, this is a unicorn.
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The couch surfer had god tier tits.
 
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Ossoi said:
I was very jealous last year to the point it was consuming me

And re the second point, yeah I first met her as a client and that's when she invited me to a fetish party with her.

One of her subs lives in same city with her and is actually legit her slave - drives her round, works for her at her BDSM studio for free, is cameraman for her fetish clips etc.

The other sub lives abroad like me, earns good money and buys her a shit ton of gifts but gets very annoyed that he only spends time with her when he pays for it. She has told him that she doesn't view her subs as friends/people just possessions like furniture. He has been asking questions about the amount of time I've been spending with her and why he can't get similar

And since NYE, I've been hanging out with this other Domme chick from the same BDSM studio/parties. I think she just does it as a job, whereas it's a lifestyle/passion for the one we're talking about. In fact, I took this other girl out along with her seven year old daughter who ended up cock blocking me.
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You are so laughably dysfunctional and unable to read social cues. Are you legitimately autistic/asperger?
 
Srathor

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Yeah for Ossoi

How much monthly are you paying her. Cut off the coin and see how long you last in her graces.
 
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