Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Tuco_sl said:

Last I checked red blood beat through my veins but I wouldn't jeopardize someone's marriage just for a fuck. It's beneath me.

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Your fedora is showing.

Sutekh_sl said:

I'm saying it's loaded because the answer is obvious to any red blooded male, whether they had prior experiences with said person.

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Sutekh_sl said:

I guess, but it seems that everyone is ignoring the fact that her and I lived platonically for a year together. We never had sex, kissed, etc. Still went and saw movies together, gamed together, just hung out as friends.

In fact when I drove her to airport to say good bye, it was really sad. We were both really sad, we hugged and kissed goodbye and it felt like I was saying goodbye to my sister rather than my girlfriend.

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Glad it's all cleared up now.

lol Sutekh wants to fuck his sister.

I'd rather just give her a forehead kiss and send her on her way, leave her wanting more. It's like planting a love caterpillar in the garden of her current relationship. It will spread and eventually consume all things.

Sutekh_sl said:

I'd rather just give her a forehead kiss and send her on her way, leave her wanting more. It's like planting a love caterpillar in the garden of her current relationship. It will spread and eventually consume all things.

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Phazael_sl said:

I actually agree with Tuco completely, but then again I hold myself to a higher ethical standard than apparently some of the people in this thread and have never let my dick over rule my brain when it comes to matters of respect and morality. I think Sutekh knew this subconsciously, but need to realize it on a conscious level which is why he is discussing it with a bunch of us jackasses on the internet. He is working things out in his head. What he does with this realization is his own business and defines the kind of man he is. But in my view, the healthy choice is to cut his past loose and focus on his future. Not saying the Pitt girl was that, but the fact that his "snowboarding trip" coincided with him cutting her off seems pretty clear that even the ex using him like an emotional tampon is affecting his other and future relationships. Better to just cut it loose, especially at his young age. And one year after being separated is WAY to soon to be pulling that shit, imo.

But its his life and he has to decide what kind of man he is.

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You make me feel bad for wanting to have fun. Why can't you just call me a retard and move on.

SUT DOES SHE KNOW YOU ARE COMING THERE???!?!?!??!

(Heheh, I said coming.)

Well we haven't really talked about it yet, but I'm sure she wouldn't have a problem with it if I showed up.

All the rabbit holes, down them we go.

Oh and wombat, nobody was thinking you were an ass hole, abusive or otherwise. I was simply making an example about how people could shade the truth in regards to people doubting sutekhs story. You pretty much have full support in the cleanse your life of the raging sex beast mission you are on.

Bros, I was out for the weekend. Delayed responses incoming.

Deathwing_sl said:

Khane doesn't want to be tied down by the commitment of daily communication.

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How was DW not given more props for this glorious contextual burn?

Frenzied Wombat_sl said:

For those insinuating I may have been an asshole, that may certainly be the case, but I certainly don't identify as such. Her complaints were the typical female fare-- not romantic enough and not taking her out enough anymore were two big complaints. The biggest was the lack of sex, because after each rage session she'd have, I wouldn't want to touch her for weeks. So the problem became self-reinforcing after awhile. She'd rage, spew nasty personal level shit that would make me feel like a half man, not only because what she said, but because I felt like a pussy due to the fact that a right hook wasn't an option to shut her up. So, I wouldn't want to fuck her for a week or two, which drove her crazier/meaner because she kept thinking I was cheating, even though I would tell her "no, I just don't feel like fucking someone that insults me". Every time we'd get back to a state of normalcy, she'd eventually get drunk again and start the cycle anew..

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Goddamn it is bizarre how similar your situation was to mine, except my ex wasn't hot. She was also from Dallas, also was prone to fits of insane rage (alcohol not necessarily required), and the feelings you describe are EXACTLY what I was thinking during & after the crazy. She always thought an apology was afix, like everything was magically better when she said "sorry" after an hour+ of unloading every nasty thing she could think of at maximum volume long after a cease fire was requested and following me around as I tried in vain to escape and cool off. "Sorry" doesn't fix that. "Sorry" doesn't fix it when you crossed so many boundaries that I ended up laying on the floor face down and reminding myself that I'm too pretty for prison so I don't punch you right in the crazy whore mouth. Lingering effects abound. One of which was not wanting to touch her for a while afterwards. Longer term, there was a serious loss of respect. She said I didn't respect her near the end, and she was right. Between the hair-trigger psychopathy and other issues, I had lost respect for her over time. Though I think, in her twisted view, she thought this was a victory for her. Something like "he lost respect for me, this justifies every thing I've ever done instead of explaining the long-term consequences of my actions!"

So anyway, welcome back to being single. Watch thisepisode of ATHFfor some self-betterment tips from Carl.

Sutekh_sl said:

Well we haven't really talked about it yet, but I'm sure she wouldn't have a problem with it if I showed up.

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It's not just her though, its her husband too. Would he mind if you came to visit (and not just visit, but stay with them)? I know I sure as hell wouldn't be comfortable to let an ex-girlfriend of my husbands come stay with me knowing full well that she is still in love with him. Especially since your ex seems to still have feelings for you too. That is a whole big mess waiting to happen. >.<

Sutekh_sl said:

So bros, I've been thinking of flying to Switzerland to visit my ex, her and I still really close and good friends. Do you think her husband would be weirded out by that? He knows we still talk every day.

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Even though I fall in the camp that purely platonic friendships with ex are possible (extremely unlikely, but possible) I think we all agree to a certain extent that there is something fishy in Sutekh's claims. So after all this debate, going back to the original question, do I think her husband would be weirded out by it? Yes. I fucking think so.

Why? Many of us at this point I think are even a bit weirded out by it, and we are not even her husband!

But do whatever the your heart tells you, at the end of the day it seems that all you want is the attention without really caring too much about potential consequences, what do you care what we think, we are just fucking letters on a screen, so go forth.