Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Jilariz_sl said:

Does the trip coincide with her anniversary?
Where are you staying?
What are you doing while you visit your ex common law wife?
Was Christmas gifts it, or "about" it? What else was there?
What did you give her for Christmas?
What did you get from ECLW (Ex Common Law Wife) for Christmas?

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BrotherWu_sl said:

Let's cut to the chase here, Sutekh, if I may ask 2 questions:

If you and your ex were alone together and guaranteed to not be interrupted on this visit and she came out in her birthday suit and said:

1) "Sutekh, come fuck me in the bed I sleep in with my husband, you big stud!"

or

2) "Sutekh, I still love you and want you back. Come make make sweet love to me on the couch, you big stud!"

Would either of these result in your compliance?

Do you, at any level, hope that this happens?

I'm just curious whether the line is around these two scenarios anywhere.

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Sutekh_sl said:

Shit bro, why you so nosey.

Where are you staying? - With them
What are you doing while you visit your ex common law wife? - Idk? She's going to show me around that place, she's lived there and stuff.
Was Christmas gifts it, or "about" it? What else was there? - I think I may have got her something before christmas, something small only like ~200 bucks.
What did you give her for Christmas? - She's an artist so I got her a Wacom monitor drawing thing.
What did you get from ECLW (Ex Common Law Wife) for Christmas? - She got me some socks that I've been wanting for awhile.

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BrotherWu_sl said:

Let's cut to the chase here, Sutekh, if I may ask 2 questions:

If you and your ex were alone together and guaranteed to not be interrupted on this visit and she came out in her birthday suit and said:

1) "Sutekh, come fuck me in the bed I sleep in with my husband, you big stud!"

or

2) "Sutekh, I still love you and want you back. Come make make sweet love to me on the couch, you big stud!"

Would either of these result in your compliance?

Do you, at any level, hope that this happens?

I'm just curious whether the line is around these two scenarios anywhere.

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Jilariz_sl said:

IS HER WEDDING ANNIVERSARY GOING TO OCCUR WHILE YOU ARE THERE, SLEEPING IN THE SAME HOUSE AS THEM?

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Sutekh_sl said:

What's the point in discussing hypothetical situations like this? We don't live in a fairy tale world. That's like asking if Taylor swift showed up to my door in a trench coat with nothing on underneath and wanted me to sleep with her would I do it? Of course I would fucking do it!

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BrotherWu_sl said:

It may be hypothetical but it is also absolutely realistic. You have conceded that you still love her and that you still find her attractive; presumably she feels the same.

So, I am asking whether you would compromise her marriage over it, given the opportunity, and whether you have any hope that said opportunity will arise.

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BrotherWu_sl said:

So, I'll take that as a yes that you would stick it in and you do hope to get the chance. Can't say I blame you.

However, if you really are trying to get some feedback on your snowboarding trip, the real question you have to ask yourself is whether your moral framework prohibits you from accepting the invitation from your ex's husband to sleep under his roof while having the ulterior motive of porking his wife. Seems like a dick move to me but your call.

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BrotherWu_sl said:

No, I asked you twice if you would do itandif you were hoping it would happen. You didn't answer with clarity so I'm taking that as a yes on both counts. Maybe I'm wrong on one or the other?

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BrotherWu_sl said:

I don't see how it's loaded. Do you mean that the answer is strongly in the affirmative on both counts?

I had similar experience in my 20s, so I get it. I'm just trying to boil it down for you and get you to be honest about it. It doesn't seem you like you are yet but maybe I'm just being trolled.

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