Marriage and the Power of Divorce
- Thread starter Grumpus
- Start date
-
Guest, it's time once again for the massively important and exciting FoH Asshat Tournament!
Go here and give us your nominations!Who's been the biggest Asshat in the last year? Give us your worst ones!
- 49,572
- 237,214
Grumpus
Molten Core Raider
- 1,927
- 223
I honestly don't know how to describe it. We just...get along.
The way I describe it to people who see us interact is that she want's for nothing. Ever asked your girlfriend what she wanted to eat, she says "idk ill eat anything" and then you suggest something and she says no she wants something else. When my wife says "idk ill eat anything" she fucking means it.
It took me a loooong time to get used to this and it pertains to everything she does. If she tells me something, she means it. So when she says "I want McDonalds" Or "I think 10 comics on your file at the comic store is enough" or "I i need to go buy new pants" or whatever I jump out of my seat and get it for her or let her do whatever she wants.
We have a very legitimate mutual respect, and it goes for everything.
I'm growing a sympathy beard. We take beard and baby progress pictures. 9 months no shaving. Then I will shave on the due date so not to confuse baby later.
Izo
Tranny Chaser
- 19,827
- 24,455
Sounds like you're her beta.
EDIT:
Oh, it's the GUS, facepalm and fuck you for a 2 month infraction, Tarrant - I'm no red piller
What I meant to say was:
Sounds like you have had no real challenges in life, as a couple. How do you manage conflicting ideas on how to do daily life stuff, investsments, sex, jobs, children, life? Who has the deciding vote? Who is the more dominant in the relationship? Do you form a committee? Communication alone is hardly the same as getting along, no? Humans have emotions, hormones, conflicts.
I'm curious as to the dynamic of this, to me, fairy tale description of a relationship. What you're describing is you folding to her. I don't see the mutual part in it - or you're not describing it. Could you give an example or two?
Grumpus
Molten Core Raider
- 1,927
- 223
We have a pair of clippers that are going in the hospital bag, I'll shave in a bathroom or whatever I have to do.
I make 99% of the decisions. When she asks for 1% she gets it.
Izo
Tranny Chaser
- 19,827
- 24,455
Okay, so you have a wife that doesn't make many demands, gotcha. That's not the impression I got from your post.
Does your wife work?
Grumpus
Molten Core Raider
- 1,927
- 223
Izo
Tranny Chaser
- 19,827
- 24,455
Usually there's a huge pay, penis, personality or religious gradient when I see this over here, Northern Europe. Excellent and free education, healthcare, social wellfare and a secularism tend to make women have it their way. I donno, could be the viking blood in these shield maidens, but I don't know any who let their man take 99% of the decisions. What's your thoughts on it?
Tarrant
<Prior Amod>
- 16,039
- 9,479
Grumpus
Molten Core Raider
- 1,927
- 223
Religion plays a part for sure, she was raised a Jehovahs witness. Other then that I honestly don't know. I mean I started this thread and didn't think someone this awesome existed. She proved me wrong.
iannis
Musty Nester
- 31,351
- 17,660
I don't think I could get along with a woman who never fought. I mean not over big stuff. I'm 100% totally cool with being lockstep on big stuff. You probably should be. But like little spats.
You said you were going to take out the trash, you lazy asshole. I sure did, but I didn't say when, you fucking nag.
And then I get hit with a shoe.
You said you were going to take out the trash, you lazy asshole. I sure did, but I didn't say when, you fucking nag.
And then I get hit with a shoe.
Izo
Tranny Chaser
- 19,827
- 24,455
Yeah, that might be it. Can I ask if you a religious person too, JW maybe? Is she excommunicated? My family have known quite a few JW's, in and out of that cult. I think that cult and the manner they treat their fellow human beings is repulsive.
Jehovah's Witnesses, disfellowshipping and shunning, including family members
Noodleface
A Mod Real Quick
- 38,507
- 16,490
Izo
Tranny Chaser
- 19,827
- 24,455
Izo
Tranny Chaser
- 19,827
- 24,455
- 49,572
- 237,214
Don't get into a religious "discussion" with Izo. He's not capable of discussing anything but his own thoughts. It won't be productive.
Just FYI.
Just FYI.