Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Interesting evening last night. So strange though I thought that there must be a full moon or some shit.

Last night was hanging out with the lady and received a bunch of texts from some girl I banged a year ago awhile after the latina broke up with me out of the blue. Anyway she asks me a bunch of dumb shit and says how she was, "thinking about backsliding as life is stressful." Never heard this term so I look it up. She gives me some tirade about how, "I basically just offered you no strings attached sex. But if you're not interested then I'll go grocery shopping instead."

Which I declined and got the most hilarious response ever as I mentioned I was with someone. And I quote, "Good for you, in the most non condescending way I am happy for you." Told the lady this and we had a good laugh imagining her furiously going down the isles of Central Market. As I was explained to that no woman would do this unless she was 99% positive she wouldn't be turned down.

Now, this SAME night. I wake up to a drunken, crying tirade from the Latina about how she didn't mean any of the terrible things she said. That she misses me is sad we're not together anymore, etc, etc. In addition to a bunch of similar texts. Both of these women ended things with me so it has been especially hilarious.

Really weird though.
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Don't know how Redpill-y this is going to sound but women are definitely spoiled by not having to work to start a relationship and never having guys say no when they do make moves. When guys do say no or act uninterested when they make moves, it drives them totally insane. Either poop in your bushes insane or gush at the sight of you insane. It's like they want you to want them all the time... but they don't. You saying no that girl is probably driving her totally up the wall as her entire worldview is being challenged.
 
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Just to add more to Cad's statement - if you, as a man, did the same thing she did totally unsolicited it would be considered mysogynist and rapey.
 
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That one is a special case too. She's one of those self ascribed feminists who I've heard bitch about "patriarchy" in person on a regular basis. But I can ignore most things and she was otherwise fun to enjoy beer and whiskey with. Still had no problem doing shit like taking pictures of me naked while sleeping and sending it to her friends and such though. Then telling me about it.

While I personally didn't give a shit if she was doing that. It was amusing to me that she didn't see any hypocrisy to it. Told me she would call the police if I were to do the same. Check yo privilege boys!

This relationship ended (and was started) by the Hinge app. It was ended because I didn't uninstall the Hinge app throughout the time I was banging her. But she only knew this because she also still perused the Hinge app on the regular. All in all it was pretty hilarious.
 
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Cad_sl said:
Don't know how Redpill-y this is going to sound but women are definitely spoiled by not having to work to start a relationship and never having guys say no when they do make moves. When guys do say no or act uninterested when they make moves, it drives them totally insane. Either poop in your bushes insane or gush at the sight of you insane. It's like they want you to want them all the time... but they don't. You saying no that girl is probably driving her totally up the wall as her entire worldview is being challenged.
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I think this is case-by-case. Possibly leaning more towards immature girls. Some girls love the chase/to-be-chased and once they're finally caught they can easily lose interest until you cut them loose again. But to try and paint an entire gender with that broad stroke is a bit heavy handed.
 
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I think this is case-by-case. Possibly leaning more towards immature girls. Some girls love the chase/to-be-chased and once they're finally caught they can easily lose interest until you cut them loose again. But to try and paint an entire gender with that broad stroke is a bit heavy handed.
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Thats totally fair, there's obviously women that aren't like that. But all you gotta do is listen to you guys talk about OLD to realize that women are being programmed that they are an extremely valuable commodity these days.
 
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Cad_sl said:
Thats totally fair, there's obviously women that aren't like that. But all you gotta do is listen to you guys talk about OLD to realize that women are being programmed that they are an extremely valuable commodity these days.
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Sounds like pop psychology by someone who has been jilted by a girl one too many times

Though I have no idea what OLD is
 
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Online world != real world. You can't apply real-life personality traits to how people act online. Even on this forum I'm sure people are vastly different than the avatar they portray here. The issue with online dating is girls need to try and filter out the noise coming from a bunch of creepy dudes who are absolute zeroes. It is hard to determine if some guy online is a creepy as fuck zero or an actual decent person.
 
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He is referring to real life personality traits based on people people on this board have met in person... from online.
 
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Online world != real world. You can't apply real-life personality traits to how people act online. Even on this forum I'm sure people are vastly different than the avatar they portray here. The issue with online dating is girls need to try and filter out the noise coming from a bunch of creepy dudes who are absolute zeroes. It is hard to determine if some guy online is a creepy as fuck zero or an actual decent person.
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But the girls aren't ever creepy as fuck zeroes? Why do you put it all on the guy?

And admittedly, this isn't my experience. I've been in a relationship (the same relationship) since the early 90's and have no experience with online dating or dating in the texting age. I'm going off of the 100's of stories you guys post, I hear from talking to my friends who are dating, and TV/internet forums other than this one.
 
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Cad_sl said:
But the girls aren't ever creepy as fuck zeroes? Why do you put it all on the guy?
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I never said that but you were specifically talking about girls obtaining a real-life heightened sense of self from online dating. I never walked away thinking "Wow I'm a stud!" because a bunch of land whales and unemployed single moms sent me an email.
 
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Well I'm pretty sure people only post the funny/crazy/weird stories, not the 'we met, it was nice, i like her *teehee*' stories.

except Tarrant
 
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Who would want to hear the about milquetoast fucking dates where there was just nothing in common Gav? This is an entertainment forum Sir!
 
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Who would want to hear the about milquetoast fucking dates where there was just nothing in common Gav? This is an entertainment forum Sir!
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Right I'm just saying if you've never done online dating yourself, you'd have a pretty warped view of it based on the stories told here.
 
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Right I'm just saying if you've never done online dating yourself, you'd have a pretty warped view of it based on the stories told here.
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You guys' stories are hardly the only ones I hear about online dating.
 
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Tarrant_sl said:
We met up, walked around one of the local lakes a few times. Talked about a wide variety of things and then we got a little chilly and went and grabbed a coffee and talked some more.
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Read this, then a hour or so later saw this story on the "news"
Lady Gaga and Taylor Kinney Take the Polar Plunge: Photos - Us Weekly

Sound wasn't on, so I didn't catch much detail. But I saw Lady gaga was 'walking around one of the great lakes with a fella'. HOLY SHIT TARRANT MET LADY GAGA!
 
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Cads right about this. Girls have a heightened sense of self worth already due to society and dudes being told to chase and girls being told they are special princesses. Then online dating comes and they have their pick of hundreds of dudes all trying to Mlady them.
 
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You could also argue that in a separate respect they have a lower sense of self-worth because they are the commodity. You guys are super insightful catching on to this ancient as fuck social convention. Maybe you should work together with the blue hairs to get it changed.
 
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