Very little is real. Real life, life, is about the first time a person is on earth. That very first time they life a 'real life'. Others in their life are typically from non-life sectors of existence where reality is all futuristic and fucked up, I dont even think time as we know it exists there.
But if you dont know wtf im talking about, you're probably on your first life.
Also I'm in hell or purgatory. Hell is a real place. If you're a bad person what happens is you 'die' in your world (you dont actually understand you died), before you actually die (you understand you die). You get dragged through bad experiences.
The reason why hell exists ladies and gentlemen is because every single person will live forever. Some have to go through hell (Its hell on earth) to mature, also for karma reasons. Also it helps eliminate guilt when you're living forever and older.