1. Not me
2. There is no way to macro moving into melee
3. I personally like to do West Freeport until 4, then Misty until 10 (Field of Bone if evil race), then head over to Kurns until like 20, then Unrest until like 30, after that I am a fan of Sol A (if you know the place). With the current ZEMs, you should try to hit Sol B as soon as possible (which would be in your mid 30s) and for as long as possible. That will get you to 55. After that the easiest place to grind to 60 is Karnor's Castle, Wakening Lands Geonids or Velketor's Labyrinth